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[–]Higheroctopus 124 points125 points126 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
To extrapolate on this, simply be. Stay in the present moment, dont let things you cant control take control of you.
[–]lilstxn 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I like this advice
[–]redpillsmooth 48 points49 points50 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Women love men with an abundance mind set.
[+]Masol_The_Producer -7 points-6 points-5 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Big thick eyebrows. A square face. Big mouth and a huge bad boy grin. A tuxedo. A deep voice.
[–]superjerk99 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What
[+]Masol_The_Producer -8 points-7 points-6 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Everything that’s caveman
[–]azpoeriu 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
caveman tuxedo
caveman
tuxedo
Lol
[–]FalconVita 19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link
But what if its the opposite? I am dating with this girl. She does nothing but phone. She got no job because of Corona. I'm not trying to judge her, but as far as I can observe from her, she isn't really doing anything productive.
[–]wheatwithheat 5 years ago [recovered] (19 children) | Copy Link
She a regular hoe my man, treat her like one. Put your energy towards a girl that got her own shit going on.
[–][deleted] 24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
What about having a conversation with her and see if something will change lmfao. This shit is degrading as fuck
[–]MinatoNamikaze16 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly coronavirus ruined everyone’s jobs
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[–]wheatwithheat0 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Exactly. There are so many basic bitches who think their gods gift to earth like sweetie ur not precious, ur not special.
[–]wheatwithheat 5 years ago [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link
If language offends you go back to kindergarten where you get in trouble for saying bad words. We’re adults get over it.
[–][deleted] 19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Nah, that’s not the point. I don’t care if you say fuck, bitch, hoe, whore, whatever. The context just makes you sound extremely insensitive and definitely NOT kind to others haha. You can call me childish or whatever, you just sound like a prick. That’s all.
[–]wheatwithheat 5 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link
Lol that’s how the world is if you wanna idealize everything you’re in for a life of heartbreak and getting taken advantage of.
[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I’m aware there are bad people like you everywhere. I just choose to not have them in my life.. good luck to you and hopefully you can manage a healthy relationship someday haha
[–]MinatoNamikaze16 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nicely said 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
[–]wheatwithheat 5 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
DM me. I’d love to get to know you so we can understand where each other is coming from.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m good. Thank you.
[–]wheatwithheat1 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Well don’t hate on something you won’t even attempt to understand.
“People think, I’m an asshole. Truthfully, I just say what I really think” - ASAP Rocky
[–]Chicksunny 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That’s just coming up with an excuse for shitty behaviour
[–]wheatwithheat-2 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Get a life and get off my shit
[–]wheatwithheat2 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
“And I call it how I see it, with my glasses on. But most of y’all don’t get the picture less the flash is on. Satisfied with nothing, you don’t know the half of it” - Dwayne Carter
[–]dibbsa -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Phenomenal! Monumental! Well said brother
Lol it’s funny cause these girls will come at you like a hoe and then get mad when you treat them like a hoe. Like babygirl if you want respect you better come correct.
[–]Trumppbuh 64 points65 points66 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Don't busy yourself needlessly. Just don't invest so much into her. Paradoxically your advice is still putting to much investment in her. Man can and should sit around a lot and just be, especially in nature
[–]wheatwithheat 5 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
That’s a good point on its own but you’re taking my advice the wrong way. Don’t spread yourself too thin with things you don’t actually care about. Like you must enjoy what you do to enjoy life and that attracts women. And I love enjoying nature but I’m more referring to the type of guy who just kinda sits around gaming and getting high and shit like that and then wonders why bitches don’t fuck with him.
[–]PsychologicalRoof2 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Sorry if it's a stupid question but isn't gaming a kind of thing that keeps you busy a lot. Like you choose to invest time in gaming kind of way.
I'm a bit confused. The post says to keep urself busy, rt ?
[–]wheatwithheat 5 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Busy with things that are productive and helping you build yourself up. It’s ok if that’s your pastime when you have a day off or if you’re trying to do it professionally. One of my friends is trying to get into the nba 2k league and actually got invited to the draft last year (didn’t get picked but there’s always next year) in that case he is actually working towards something so it can actually be considered productive.
[–]PsychologicalRoof2 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think I got you ... Thanks
[–]throwdontgo31 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. I know plenty of guys in relationships who game a lot. It’s still a passion, and the right person will find it interesting. There just might be a smaller pool to choose from, but you’ll get a better match.
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I (29m) many years ago had made the mistake of revolving my life and availability around a girl I fell in love with in college. I was doing well in school but did I have drive? Not as much, because I devoted so much attention to her.
I put her needs before my own and she did not appreciate me for that. Not one bit; she passed me up like I was nothing to her. I have learned the hard way - I live my own life first. While I don't have me a lovely lady yet, I am much better at taking care of my own shit first. Then I'll find a lady who deserves me.
[–]wheatwithheat3 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Right, most of us have had to learn this the hard way. If you put someone else before yourself all it does is make them lose respect for you. Know your worth brother.
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[–]wheatwithheat8 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
It’s totally ok to want to lay in bed all day and relax, especially if you’re usually busy and have the day off. But a big thing is your environment and your peers. Like I usually have a lack of motivation too that’s why I need structure around me. Like I want to get into acting, I took a class last semester but haven’t really worked on it since then I’ve been left to my own devices. But I still keep in touch with my professor and am taking another next semester and that kind of structure and accountability will actually force me to do something. And when it comes to your job you need to hold yourself accountable to your boss and coworkers to do your part. Having people around you who are motivated and driven themselves is essential and that rubs off on you. They say you’re the average of the 5 people you spend the most time around, so you need to be around other people who have goals. Hanging out with losers makes you one.
[–]intelectualycurious 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
you must say busy - with something that you’re more passionate about than the girl you’re currently seeing.
[–]wheatwithheat5 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yeah bruh it seems like some of the dudes on here take this shit too seriously like yo if you have the time to write out deep descriptions of every interaction you have with a girl and long philosophical posts like damn how much of your day is this shit taking up
[–]TraviTrav2315 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Somebody read The Way of the Superior Man lately?
[–]mystikalmix -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nope...is it life changing?
[–]TraviTrav2315 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't know if it's life-changing, but it's in alignment with what you described in your post. Specifically, having your own shit going on. It's a good read, check it out!
Edit to add that I just realized you're not OP.
[–]fuckleberyfinn 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also make sure you still have some spare time, obviously. Too busy is also bad
[–]thadoomburg 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or.. you can just be yourself. That’s really all you should be doing, but striving to be your best self— striving to be productive in your own particular way, whether what you like to do makes sense to others or not. Try not molding yourself according to what will/won’t attract people. Do what you want/like, and strive to be your best self everyday for yourself. The right person will fit your lifestyle.
[–]Asca-io 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Then when you ask what she likes doing she's telling you "eating and sleeping ahahah ahahah"
Exactly lol like baby that shits not attractive
[–]CoachDominicDolenti 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely.
That's masculine energy. Being driven, focused and determined. And here's the most important part. Let's say you start dating or seeing other women. KEEP THAT SAME ENERGY.
Many guys are focused, driven and goal oriented but once they meet a cute girl or start getting exclusive, they default to this White Knight, needy behavior syndrome. And nothing kills more attraction than a needy, insecure man.
Good post my man, it's a good reminder out there for all of us to stay passionate and stay focused!
[–]GambleEvrything4Love 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How about attracting somebody who likes you for who you are... most of the women I know who subscribe to this theory (and many others like it) are devoid of this quality themselves!
[–]EmperorIngB 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you are reading this you are not busy enough! 😎
Jk advice is good, it fits with the principle of valuing your time. No one thing should soak up all of your attention
[–]k20_4 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How do men feel about women who are always busy?
[–]wheatwithheat4 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Like they’re an adult with a life
[–]Masol_The_Producer 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be nice. They be nice back.
That’s literally the only advice you need to do.
[–]Background_Owl7 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is also practical adulting advice. People like otters who are productive and have things their active with.
[–]CenaSmackDown 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sure that's true. You can't just live your life trying to look good in front of women though. Do it for yourself first.
[–]MinatoNamikaze16 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Op is an idiot because everyone has different occupations in life, ex: a person who works at home while he spends time with his girl. Not ever girl is going to pass you up just because you spend a lot of time with her🤦🏽♀️
[–]wheatwithheat 5 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
That’s not the point. And if she has nothing to do all day but be at home with you than you can both be poor and stupid and not contribute shit to society together. A match made in hell.
[–]MinatoNamikaze16 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That’s where you are going to end up going because if these stupid idealism’s of yours🤦🏽♂️
Ok let’s come back to this 10 years from now and see where each other is at
[–]MinatoNamikaze16 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok bet
[–]bignutz3 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is scripture
[–]Dino_eating_a_pickle 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Or you know, all woman have their own preferences because they are diffrent people? And to the men here, dont change yourself for anyone. Be who you are and the right person will come. :)
No ones telling anyone to change themself just to become the best version of themself that they possibly can.
[–]Dino_eating_a_pickle 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ah ok. your post comes across with a diffrent message though.
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