Desperation and the reset

Life-Income2986 · 2025-08-13T21:51:17+00:00

Being horny and in a drought isn't necessarily a turn-off for women. Being horny and dwelling on how horny you are all day because you don't do anything cool, fun, or productive is a turn off for women.

HistorianOk2573 · 2025-08-13T23:27:08+00:00

Seems like you are making your lack of sex an issue that wouldn't be an issue if you just didn't treat it as an issue.

The idea that you can't get women if you haven't had some for a while is simply false. What turns off women is you not being comfortable in your own skin, not whether you've had sex or not lately. But the fact that you are bothered by that. And being bothered is a choice.

You can simply accept that sometimes you don't get sex and that's ok, instead of acting like there is something wrong with you for not having sex as frequently as usual. Agian this is all the story you choose to tell yoruself about your situation.

You can want sex, feel horny and instead of acting like that's shameful, use it as another seductive tool. Tell women the effect they have on you, not as a request but as an expression of your genuine feelings of attraction for them. Not even to request something because you are not there to ask anything from them, simply to spark emotions, to get strong reactions, to be polarizing, and attract naturally those who lean into your vibe that you are inviting them to feel.

If a woman says "it's weird to be so direct or express your feelings", you don't go on the defensive, you don't take it back, you don't act apologetic, you don't argue, you don't justify yourself, you don't act like what you want it's wrong. You say: "i hear you, it's just how i feel and i like expressing it".

Because for women feelings are always valid, even if they don't share them, hence no counterargument can't be made there when you simply express your emotional truth. You are am oving train either they feel your vibe and get on board when you invite them in or they miss the train and that's perfectly fine by you too.

SmtyWrbnJagrManJensn · 2025-08-13T21:34:50+00:00

You could hire an escort

Title	Desperation and the reset
Author	Hungry-Forever4108
Upvotes	6
Comments	16
Date	August 13, 2025 8:53 PM UTC (11 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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