Hmmm self respect or play the game

xcoreflyup · 2026-01-01T17:56:34+00:00

i would leave it on read. if she is not rescheduling, move your attention to other stuff from her.

always put yourself first.

First_Inspection_478 · 2026-01-01T18:11:18+00:00

sh knew exactly what she was doing and wants you to play along. i'd move on personally. did she offer to reschedule the date?

Excellent-Archer-238 · 2026-01-01T17:54:09+00:00

don't reply and she will pursue later

throw_its · 2026-01-01T17:53:22+00:00

I don’t think you’ll lose any self respect if you holler back. Just don’t chase.

ThrowRA_fajsdklfas · 2026-01-01T18:49:23+00:00

Match that energy. Let her plan something or ask you out at this point. If she doesn’t, don’t pursue. You’re a backup plan right now.

Accomplished-Pen7695 · 2026-01-01T20:57:57+00:00

Play the game it’s fun don’t take it personal don’t take women serious biggest lesson I learned

Res-at-Dorsia · 2026-01-01T22:09:57+00:00

Wouldn’t entertain it, but if you’re adamant, something to the effect of: I don’t like how things were last left. I’m curious how you’ll make it up to me. She’s either in or was messing around. Either way you’ll have your answer

Ok-Orange7146 · 2026-01-01T18:58:02+00:00

Why did you even respond to her happy new year text like a sucker?

Shes looking for attention and she thinks so little of you that she said “im gonna text him back like nothing ever happened and i know he’ll respond because he acts like a loser like most of these loser guys i hang with”

And guess what? You responded and gave her attention.

And on top of that you’re still thinking of sleeping with her.

She’s right. You’re a loser.

A loser who values women above himself.

You’re not a man who women respect and take seriously.

Film2021 · 2026-01-02T05:03:11+00:00

Leave her alone for now and she will reach back out

Human-Arachnid-2592 · 2026-01-02T09:10:24+00:00

Skip her goofy ass.

basafo · 2026-01-01T21:34:44+00:00

Overthinking. You need to talk with more.

whitesweatshirt · 2026-01-02T13:27:56+00:00

I'm gonna disagree with a lot of these comments and say if u leave her on read it's gonna be awkward and prolly go nowhere

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-01-01T20:20:16+00:00

Never invest more than her. When she starts investing, then you can invest back again. Mirror her for a while until she starts treating you like a person.

Title	Hmmm self respect or play the game
Author	Hungry-Forever4108
Upvotes	54
Comments	33
Date	January 1, 2026 5:47 PM UTC (7 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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