Im in one of those phases of life where Im rebuilding, but the desire to cold approach keeps overwhelming me. (38m here)

I know im giving out desperate vibes because i want a “win”, or rather i haven’t had sex i was actually excited about (and not settling for) in a while.

I also have no money for dates and it would distract me from my focus. But i keep wanting to try n try.

Worst part is im talking to like 3 girls who are chill with my situation. But they don’t feel like wins or rather fulfill that desire. I live around INSANELY attractive women.

What can I do lads? Thanks