Did fixing your posture improve your dating live?

DaygameCode · 2024-09-21T21:59:55+00:00

If you hope that fixing your posture will make you go from getting no sex at all to getting sex every month, the answer is no. Those are minor details that can help a little bit, but ultimately it’s the sum of many variables that makes the difference and not just cherry picking one particular thing.

rememberdeathoften · 2024-09-22T00:53:33+00:00

Does muscles make you more attractive? Yes but that doesn’t mean every girl will line up to marry you. Does being Tall make you more attractive? Of course but doesn’t mean every girl you walk pass will want you. Whenever you got a question regarding some physical feature just think about what the male character look like in a romance novel written by a woman.

Having a hunch back may take you down a few points in the looks department but it doesn’t disqualify you from every woman. You want to be the best version of yourself

Asleep-University-67 · 2024-09-21T21:37:01+00:00

Male here! Can only speak for my experience! Yes woman are attracted to good posture it’s indicate a part of confidence when they see a man with good posture.

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2024-09-21T21:59:11+00:00

dude I was watching hypnotica on this topic, last night, short answer, yeap it might help, he said to practice in front of a mirror, cool stuff !

ymfazer600 · 2024-09-22T11:11:24+00:00

For me fixing my posture also fixed my weak voice and shortness of breath which in turn made it a lot easier to interact and communicate with people in general.

MouseAware809 · 2024-09-22T12:08:26+00:00

Granted, its your posture sitting down, but I would guess it applies when your standing, walking.

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/10/091005111627.htm#:\~:text=The%20results%20were%20striking.,negative%20traits%20they%20wrote%20down.

Now it does not say it will improve your dating life.

I would say if you appear more confident, have positive thoughts, then yeah it would impact your dating life.

However, if you believe that its looks only 100%, then no it wont.

HomelessMilkman · 2024-09-22T14:16:37+00:00

Posture isn't the issue, it's just indicative of issues.

It's 'how did we get here?'. The lack of self-awareness and care for your body is the problem. It's the fact that it stems from 'being in your head', 'being too logical', your energy is centred in your mind, not being expressive, engaging, dynamic, charismatic, moving, being, doing, etc.

All 'unattractive' traits have some roots in 'low self-esteem'. It's not so much the symptoms, rather the big core issue. Fixing your posture is important but it's really about getting your consciousness out of your mind, out of this analytical, judmental headspace (which has merits in office work but not socializing) and into your body which is a more grounded, action-taking place.

Everything is connected. People say 'do this' and 'do that' but it's 1%. The core of all of this isn't how you behave in one situation, or covering this one area, it's an accumilation of how you live your life. Moment to moment you're either building or destroying your self-esteem.

norwegiandoggo · 2024-09-22T08:01:28+00:00

There's no proof that stretching improves posture. Despite lots of people making that claim online.

But strength training might (when it does, the effect tends to be mild).

My posture was never horrible but never amazing either. I tried to improve it back in the day, it made no difference and it didn't affect my game at all.

I think focusing on posture is a waste of time for most people. But doing strength training is a thing that definitely will improve your attractiveness. That is something we have a lot of evidence for. And it might improve posture as a bonus. But that is more of a "maybe" result.

If you do strength training with your muscles stretched under load, you will also get more flexible. So that largely eliminates the need for stretching as a separate activity.

So hit the gym for muscle gains. We have lots of evidence it makes guys more attractive! We have very little evidence on the posture department - so I'd say it's best to place that on a lower priority.

Zspritee · 2024-09-23T01:45:41+00:00

Having better posture is one of those things that adds to and affects your confidence. The more little things you have the better the overall whole. Whether it's drinking water to have healthier skin plus weight management benefits that spill over into other areas that indirectly benefit your overall SMV, or posture which will affect your presence and confidence, it all helps at the end of the day, not just for dating either.

Personally I thought I had ok posture, but after rucking for a few weeks on my walking pad, I've noticed that my posture just feels so much more effortless. My shoulders and everything naturally fall in place pretty easily. Usually I have to consciously remind myself to feel like I'm being pulled by a string at the top of my head to get into good posture, but lately I haven't felt the need as much. Plus I feel more confident in the way I walk, relaxed without worrying about my posture bc it's already falling into place subconsciously.

I focus on certain strength Training exercises and stretching that indirectly and directly help posture and posterior pelvic tilt. The one thing that really helped me with that was incorporating some yoga sessions and really focusing on my glute strength. So incorporating hip thrusts, Weighted lunges and weighted bridges for me tremendously helped.

You do yoga movements for lower back pain or anterior pelvic tilt and that will get you used to the sensation of tilting your pelvis straight. With that movement in mind your already training yourself to bring your pelvis into a straight line at the end of those exercises, now the strength Training ones will do the same but with weighted resistance so your gluten will become stronger and kick in more than your lower back. Bc if your glutes are weak, even for guys, then your lower back will kick in and you get anterior pelvic tilt.

Check out athlean x on youtube, he helped me out with how to target that kind of thing.

But yeah man, good luck on your journey. Let's root for each other!

floaton345 · 2024-09-23T08:23:06+00:00

Wow. Posture is everything. Here's what you can do- do some physical therapy. in a year, you will be golden.

I am a woman, BUT- I do dancing, singing performing. Posture is literally the unsung hero of seduction. It's literally how you carry yourself.

it is poise, and intention of movement.

If you're asking the question you already know. But don't you want to look in the mirror and be greeted by a dignified reflection of everything you could be? Posture even determines how good your face looks. Check out face yoga by fumiko. Even she will say like double chin, etc comes down to posture. And if it's bad now, it will only get worse later. that's why men love ballerinas. If you look closely, most of them are average, if not bellow average attractiveness. yes they are skinny and that's a draw, but I would argue it's a primarily postural attraction. Work on it boo! and it's a life long discipline. That's why actors pull. they have measured delivery, which is the face version of body posure.

Title	Did fixing your posture improve your dating live?
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Date	September 21, 2024 8:54 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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