I’m (21M) seeing this girl (28F) currently, we matched on bumble, she’s very friendly, we get along okay enough. Soon into knowing each other I let her know what I was looking for was some casual non-committal fun. She said she was down. We’ve been on 3 dates now counting tonight. We got dinner and each had a drink. I live with my parents and she has an apartment so her place would be the place to go to if we were to get to any sexy sexy time. There was a point in the night where she asked what we should do now, I didn’t want to invite myself over but I know generally girls want a guy to be more assertive when it comes to these things. I should mention we haven’t kissed yet, I’m not great at finding the opportunity to make that happen but it didn’t happen tonight and I’ve been thinking maybe it should have. Should I have said “let’s go back to your place”? Is she going to lose interest now?