Difference between a 6 and a 9?

KingOnixTheThird · 2024-04-04T14:48:44+00:00

A 6/10 woman is still cute, she's just not drop dead gorgeous. She's cute, but in a more normal looking way if that makes sense. They usually have some sort of flaw that makes them not an 8 or 9, but they're not ugly by any means either.

Guys will pursue a 6/10 looking girl if he's attracted to her particular type.

An example of a 6/10 is Serena Williams. She's not the most conventionally attractive woman but if a guy is attracted to that particular type, he would give her a chance.

dobbs1997 · 2024-04-04T03:13:12+00:00

YOU FLIRT WITH ALL OF THEM THE SAME…The fact that you think you have to treat them differently based on how they look is your problem, your words here are exposing your mindset & how you feel about yourself, you need to fix that and then a woman’s looks won’t even be a deciding factor in how you talk to them..You’re putting certain women up on a pedestal & that’s just feeding your low self esteem, you’re putting everyone but yourself on a pedestal.

trailhopperbc · 2024-04-04T03:16:49+00:00

No difference TBH.

I always scratched my head when i landed a 9 or a 10.

Now with my wife (who is a 12), i understand that i’m a funny guy with some cool life experiences to talk about so i just talk and chat.

I was a bartender at 20 for 8 years. That also got me real comfortable talking with people.

But i came to realize to be the same for the 6 or the 10 because the moment i “tried” to get their attention, i fucked it up.

Every. Single. Time. LOLz

Happyseducer · 2024-04-04T08:33:43+00:00

Mark Manson is an overweight sex tourist who had sex with a handful of impoverished Brazilian women by way of being a Caucasian American and then wrote books as if he were an expert on dating.

Generally hotter girls can handle a bit harsher teasing. But it varies girl to girl. Especially now a days the gap is closing. Girls get huge amounts of attention on social media and have much less respect for guys showing interest in them then in the past. I find for example college age girls almost all need to be treated closer to the way 9s and 10s of the past were ( pushing them away and teasing them).

So nowadays all girls you generally need more of a teasing vibe and disinterest. But 9s and 10s often you can be a little bit harsher - like I have a few things I will say to a girl who is the hottest in a bar ( a cool bar with hot girls not a dive bar with one decent looking girl) that work great - but that would probably upset a less hot girl.

A thing with direct game and "treat all girls the same" type theories is guys make game about them. Like " I am going to prove how confident I am and be direct" or "if I had good innergame I will not care how hot a girl is and treat them all the same!"

But these again are focused on making game really about proving oneself ( even though inversely guys who espouse such theories think the opposite) . In my opinion to not prove oneself - you actually simply accept that yes - I am gaming because I want to bang hot girls no shit or I wouldn't do it lol - and then just take it non personally and do what works.

And the REALITY is ( when not making it a self centered thing about guys proving to themselves they are "bold" that extremely attractive women have a TOTALLY DIFFERENT life experience and social experience/social effect as compared to just cute girls.

One example - I made an error today.

I was in a super tough bar ( senior night everyone knew each other ultra suspicious of outsiders who were there lol)- and I teased one of the hottest girls there in a harsh ish way - ( she was with two attractive/cute friends) the very hot girl loved it and her friend laughed - but then the third friend got jealous and cut me out immediately. By opening with the tease - even though it was a bit of a push away - since she was so hot - it was still assumed (rightly) by the friend that I was hitting on her. And she was jealous and cut me out right away.

As the girls are SUPER used to the hottest friend getting most of the attention even in very subtle ways like people look at her more when they talk ( the social reality is different) so 1) almost anything directed at her ( especially addressing her first) was labeled as hitting on her 2) Even though she DID like me the less attractive friend the last thing in the world she wants is to be second fiddle again - to a guy now chatting with her much prettier friend and cut me out of the conversation.

Whereas - if it were 3 girls who were all cute but not the one super hot one. I could have done a playful tease like I did and likely had all 3 friends laugh, notice I was cool and that their friend liked me and then been able to stay in the group and chat/work the girl.

As 3 cute girls noticing a cool guy teasing their friend and their friend seems to like them won't be too socially threatened and generally will be cool with it. But two girls who are secretly furious at how their one friend gets so much more attention and HATE that they get ignored - will absolutely aim to sabotage the conversation as quickly as possible, much of the time.

( also I know this will get downvoted by guys who are very attached to their theories- but this is for the 10% of guys who care more about getting results then being right)

Title	Difference between a 6 and a 9?
Author	cepi300
Upvotes	2
Comments	15
Date	April 4, 2024 12:53 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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