Over the last few weeks I have been in a couple of sets which dragged over 2-3 hours. These were at pubs, I went into the set pretty early and instead of closing right away decided to hang out. The plan was to go for a pull to my place in both cases.

However there were points in the sets where I wanted to take the number and just pick it up later.

One example is when I had already made out with this girl but for some reason she started giving me less and less attention. I managed to re-engage her by doing an excellent cold read and then continued to stick around. In hind sight I should have closed her and then go around the pub talking to other girls or just enjoying myself.

But I persisted, didn't let my thoughts of 'does she even want me around' get to me and be totally shameless.

In another situation this girl was totally qualifying to me, we even grinded agressively on the dance floor. But too drunk to give her number. I tried to close her like 5 times and finally did. Even as her friend tried to stop her, he also at a couple of times said goodbye to me (not in front of her, there was a lot of madness happening) but I kept ignoring that shit too. To be honest I closed that girl just to prove to myself that it can be done. Haven't messaged her, probably wont.

I am okay with being shameless now but wondering if I should instead just focus on what I want in a particular situation (close vs persisting) vs sticking to persistence mind set.

I kind of am already leaning towards doing what I want to do.

Another way to ask this question would be, what qualifies as ejection?