What do you guys think of this idea- be direct about seeding the next step in escalation and/or the close…

To explain, I often feel like it’s difficult to know exactly when to try for escalation and if you seed the idea a bit first it can be good. For example if the escalation is to move from your porch to the sofa inside your house, you can just directly say ‘let’s go inside’ but that might not work as well in some situations as just talking about how it’s nicer inside the house and warmer and maybe even some cool thing that she should see inside the house like your collection of 80’s action figures or whatever… basically seed how fun it is inside the house until she is like ‘I want to go check it out inside the house’ like it’s her idea to escalate. But that’s just basic game 101 stuff…

What I’m talking about is other situations where you have in view the next step in the compliance ladder like going from the dating app chat to another app, moving the conversation to IG or whatever, and trying to get the girl to do video call. Would it perhaps be a good idea to just directly state early on your intention is to do that but just say something that’s like “no pressure but my goal is to get you off the app, chatting on messenger or ig, and hopefully a video chat… and out on a date irl asap, but I’m not planning to ask until it seems like you’re very interested. So give me some signs of interest and I’ll do my job, we will be out on a date in no time”

Basically just openly state that you’re interested in escalating all the way to a date but want to make sure she’s highly interested before asking.

Another idea I had was to ask questions in a manner that is like hypothetical questions “if you were gonna do a brief video chat eventually with someone from this app with the intention of scheduling a date, what would it hypothetically take to make that happen? Is there some magic combination of words that is like guaranteed to work on you?” (Said playfully almost in jest but also telegraphing clear intention without asking yet so you can’t be rejected)