Do "Lower Value Men" have to do more than "Higher Value Men" in order to keep women happy, or does it eventually all equal out and is every guy upheld to the same standard?

MrDownhillRacer · 2018-08-30T04:33:09+00:00

God, this thread reminds me of my fear that, even if I finally overcome my problem of not being able to appeal to or attract anyone, my insecure ass is going to be terrified of losing whatever girl I do end up with, and she'll realize it and treat me like shit.

WIA20XX · 2018-08-29T18:55:40+00:00

It's not pickup for sure.

But if you think that your broad could do better, then you're right.

If you don't think she can, and you're the shit, you're also right.

Sounds like she has you by the balls because you gave them to her.

One_Insanity · 2018-08-29T19:42:50+00:00

Of course.

It's obvious. A relationship is a two way street and if you break it down to its bare bone essentials. It's all about what you have to offer to the other person and vice versa.

To make the example more obvious imagine if you were 2 times better in every single category. Of fucking course she'd give you a ton more slack.

Just improve your dick, your skill in bed, your skills in general, your charisma, your connections, your friendships, your social circle your body, your intellect, your humor, your income and just double them. Maybe just stick with a 50% increase if your dick is average otherwise you'll be dealing with a 12 incher.

I think it's pretty obvious and she's got a much better perception of herself than is reality.

MrDownhillRacer · 2018-08-29T21:53:29+00:00

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weallwantsomethink · 2018-08-30T04:41:08+00:00

She is on the edge of thinking she can do better.

So she tries getting stuff from you to keep her satisfied.

But it is a rabbit hole. When women try to change you they win in the short term but lose in the long term. Because what makes you attractive is being confident and your own man.

Some guys give everything to a women and they just dump him because they lost respect for him.

So give away as little as possible. As soon as you start she will keep taking. And your value will go down so she keeps taking for a shorttime win.

dontstopmenow1966 · 2018-08-29T20:45:34+00:00

Let me get this right.
You told her that she would be happier with another, better man.
Then you complain when she tells you that she would not treat him better.
Not only that, you ask complete strangers to tell you that she was wrong.
Sounds pretty dumb to me.

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