This is for someone who needs to make the distinction between quality and quantity. There are going to be moments where it is too easy, and a little effort makes it all worthwhile. It is easy to go with the first girl that you get comfortable with, and just as easy to falter midway through chatting up a [9] and feel like you don't deserve it. Make the effort. Have some fucking standards (don't be a slut). That took a while for me, but now I know patience is a virtue. She might not be very easy to talk to at first but then you will discover her personality, and let it go from there. Some girls are not overly emotive, just like some guys, their emotions are hard to read. If you start to get a feeling with some beautiful, cool creature, try, do not get distracted, stick with her (not slobbering over her, but definitely there). Nothing to intense, let it flow as it comes, but be discerning in the opportunities that present themselves, and you will find yourself a better person.

And if you are just out ther to get laid, don't bother, be as direct as you can sensibly be.