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[–]thrizzlepizzle 13 points14 points15 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not really. Which means doing it helps you to stand out from the crowd ;D.
Also, in the many times I've tried it, girls respond well. Sets you apart as a more confident and personable.
[–]ph08n1x 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I deffinitley agree with this, on a phone call your personality, charm comes through much more easily then via texting (or that's been my experience).
If you think about it a text is just a bunch of words from a number which she may get a lot of.... BUT a phone call is a voice with an actual personality where you can get instant reactions to questions and have flowing conversation which will separate you must more easily from anyone else plus you can get an instant answer to asking her out!
[–]meowfix 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Calling instead of texting is what intrigued my ex, lasted 3 years 10months
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Call and follow up with a text if no answer. It's how I prefer to be contacted.
[–]NudgeMyNoodle 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For what it's worth Kezia Noble put out a little "book" (pamphlet? IDK) called something like text and phone game. It basically says you text with a "ping" text and when she responds you tell her you're calling in 5 mins. That's what I got from it anyway.
Link to PDF I'm sure there's a million places to find the pdf. This one was the first one I clicked in google and apparently you don't have to download it to see the whole thing.
[–]rangamatchstick 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Iev tried this one and asked it alot among my local community and what I have come to realise and so it seems the rest of them have is that its up to you and your style, I would also note though however that it depends on the type and age of the girls you are getting numbers from, aka a more mature girl mite prefer a phone call as its more mature, were as a younger one may want something less direct.
[–]joshsway 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea some do, but I find texting more effective for many reasons: https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/7-reasons-to-text-versus-call
[–]EndOfTheUniverse 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I call and leave hilarious voicemail messages if they don't pick up.
[–]themouseclicker500 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I call every single time I get a number now. It makes you stand out instantly from the crowd.
The rule of thumb I have for calling is this.
If the girl seems genuinely cold throughout the whole phone call, do NOT ask her out then and instead just text her a couple days later after the call (which in this case should consist of just banter for like 5-10 minutes)
If she is excited throughout the call, ask her out.
This has worked really, REALLY well for me.
[–]DaggerStone 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There was a girl who used to call me instead of texting. It is on a person to person basis. Some people react differently.
Give her a call, whats the worst that happens?
[–]Diece -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I always call.
"Hey, you know who this is. call me at #.
[–]SoldierGenerale -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Rarely call girls. Not really my think and its too much effort in my opinion, but if she isn't responding to my texs I'll call her 20 times. Basically just do whatever it takes. If you want to see her tonight I recommend calling it's more spontaneous if you're in a fun mood. If you want to meet up next week why the rush?
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
93% of communication is nonverbal between a man and a woman. Text is only words. Get it?
Now some girls will be chatting with 10 other people at the same time so she may reject your call. (In that case dont contact her again for a while) but an older (25+) non-party girl who isnt busy , will take your call. Just text "I will call you, go somewhere quiet and lonely where your friends can't see the wetness on your crouch"
When you call speak with a deep voice coming from your diaphragm, speak slowly, pause often, PAUSE FOR 5 SECONDS for real:
You know... 5 seconds tension build upyou are... 5 seconds really 3 seconds really... 5 seconds (her anticipation summits at this point and her hand goes down her pants in love with me right now.. (release)
I did this to a married, 38 years old teacher of mine in person, without the phone. I received a blowjob, swallow, and a kiss on the cheek with "You are really good with women". I wasn't. I had just read about this in a Dave De book.
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