Do you have any mental devices (such as a quote/mantra you say in your head) to help you with approach anxiety?

puaCurveBall · 2015-06-26T19:23:11+00:00

Just fucking do it.

If you keep waiting for tricks to lessen your AA, you'll never just approach. The trick isn't getting over the AA, the trick is making a decision to feel the full brunt of AA and approach anyway.

Stop trying to get rid of it, stop worry about it. you have it, it isn't going to change, so you need to decide if you are going to let it hold you back for the rest of your life. Feel it and approach anyway. Force yourself to take action no matter what you are feeling.

A_lone_heart · 2015-06-26T21:50:57+00:00

3.......2..........1.......Leggo!

cudder17 · 2015-06-26T20:11:22+00:00

DEEP BREATHS. seriously, I've started taking deep breaths regularly through out the day and I feel so much clearer mentally. You tend to not worry as much about things, makes you go with the flow. Try it.

rintilione · 2015-06-26T21:25:52+00:00

"I think she's cute. What does she think about me?" might help

Paralleltimetraveler · 2015-06-26T23:30:24+00:00

You can be courageous or comfortable, not both.

killaswagyolo420 · 2015-06-27T02:18:57+00:00

Stop being a pussy.

ambitionjr · 2015-06-27T03:30:53+00:00

"OOBE" out of body experience ... let go of all emotions , all previous experience , all future experiemces snd just let yourself go to achieve what you came to do m leave your body

umbrellasinjanuary · 2015-07-01T09:34:46+00:00

"The cool thing is – every single success eclipses the last hundred failures. Trust me on that."

Title	Do you have any mental devices (such as a quote/mantra you say in your head) to help you with approach anxiety?
Author	zenplus
Upvotes	9
Comments	11
Date	June 26, 2015 5:47 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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