Do you have the time?

VMikeL · 2012-05-11T11:38:24+00:00

You just answered your own question, next time you can say "hi how are you? I'm chris" and then start an interesting conversation about the fact shes columbian and transition. You missed an opportunity, so just take the next one.

puaCurveBall · 2012-05-10T21:52:32+00:00

You will most likely never be able to analyze situations while you are in them, that is why you train your default reaction and mindset to something that gives you a better response.

If you assume attraction and have the mindset that girls are always trying to open you to talk to them, then when presented with these situations, you'll go with your default response which is to chat them up.

When girls open me and it looks like I have some smooth line saved up, that is just an illusion, in reality I just assume any girl talking to me is probably trying to get into my pants, and respond that way until I determine otherwise.

Don't over think this, just introduce yourself the next time to see her. "Hi, my name is cris". Simple. Done.

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-05-11T02:12:05+00:00

Oh jeez. You know you missed an obvious opportunity. But just so you learn something else from this, I will remind you that if a woman approaches you, it is a signal that she is ready to carry most of the interaction, all you have to do is follow along.

Now another thing that you might be able to use if the tables are turned, I heard an interesting day game strategy, I've used it, although not much. It is believed that people are almost always open to a "socially acceptable" question like what time is it, which then makes them more open to a second, more direct approach that might be immediately rejected if that was the first thing you said. So for example:

Him: Excuse me, do you have the time?
Her: Yes, it's 8:15.
Him: Well I knew the time, but you're so cute, I just wanted an excuse to meet you..

unireed · 2012-05-11T03:17:09+00:00

next time you walk past her, turn around and walk with her. she wants your D. let her have it

Murmaider · 2012-05-11T19:50:47+00:00

Knowing if someone is interested in you is the difficult part about gaming/seduction.

Obviously she is interested in you. From this point on, use that as motivation (you no longer have to "assume attraction".

This is what you are going to do. Mirror her. Tomorrow when you see her again, you will ask her for the time. when she gives you the time you will say, "don't you mean 7:xx (take one hour )" When she begins to reply, cut her off and and introduce yourself "hi my name is cris". Do this with a smile and a friendly voice. Let us know how it goes.

2012-05-11T16:21:15+00:00

Grow a pair.

Title	Do you have the time?
Author	djcris
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	May 10, 2012 9:43 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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