Does anybody have a direct transcript of when they’ve successfully approached and picked up a girl?

DudeYourPostIsGay · 2018-05-29T03:25:05+00:00

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recyclablebanthas · 2018-05-29T06:03:32+00:00

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Does anybody have a direct transcript of when they’ve successfully approached and picked up a girl?

Look, I feel for you, man, but you're barking up the wrong tree here. You're going to get as much out of many "transcripts" you get, as you would by watching a scene in a movie or a TV show of two people meeting and a pick-up happening.

Why? Because no two social interactions are the same and no two people are the same. So even IF someone dropped a transcript of a perfect pick-up, it wouldn't help you as much as you think. It's not like you would be able to copy the moves they made because life can't be planned for.

This is an idea as old as dirt: no plan of operations extends with any certainty beyond the first contact with the main hostile force, otherwise known as, "no plan survives contact with a real life situation because there always going to be variables that you can't account for."

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I am just wondering what it looks like seeing as I have never pulled this off, nor have I seen it done up close. If you don’t have a transcript of when you have could anyone direct me to where I could find one

Here's the issue. What you need are the core concepts here. And then you need to go practice those in real life and be prepared to feel foolish as you learn the same way any other person who gets good at this, has had to.

You want a magic pill; there isn't one.

But the basic core concepts are easy:

Actively listen to people: This is a big one that people often overlook, becoming focused on trying to talk about themselves or "self-amuse," etc. People are giving you free information all the time. Use it and you never have to worry about "what to say next."
Pay attention to what's going on around you**, overall**. People want to relate and connect to each other. And an easy way to do that is point out something about the shared experience you're having with them at that very moment. There are things happening all the time that one can observe and simply commenting on those things, is gold.
Do something to build up comfort and confidence in physical escalation. Once you are developing your attention/listening skills, you have to work on escalation. But it has to remain balanced between what you want, and knowing what she wants, which you can know by watching her reaction to your escalation. Here are some easy things that people overlook, which give you information about her openness to escalation with you:

Testing her space bubble. Edging into her personal space and seeing if she makes the adjustment to get her space back. Does she move her leg away from yours to maintain distance. And so on.
Safe, non-sexual touches that you could engage in with anyone, even guys. Arm jabs, shoulder, outside of the arm stuff, high fives, etc. Any sort of contact (or expectation of contact like when you put your hand up for a high five) will force a reaction from her as to how much she likes contact with you.
Her reaction to incidental or accidental contact. You can't plan this one, but sometimes you'll bump up against her or something, and her reaction might tell you something.
Overall, it's key that you pay attention throughout this process. You need to be aware of her reaction to you being in her space, or physical contact. It's the only way to know if you are welcome to do what you're doing, or if you should make adjustments.
You can also practice being able to read women during physical escalation, by learning a social partner dance. I can't recommend this enough as an actual short cut to learning game. Something like, Salsa, Lindy hop, West Coast Swing, Argentine tango, etc. You really can't go wrong. Learn something fun and have an excuse to be close to a girl in a fun and non-threatening way. (Just respect it as an activity & means of self-improvement first, and place to meet women second.)

VDKay · 2018-05-29T08:22:21+00:00

You can search youtube videos with in-field pickup. RSD guys have a bunch for free which they also break down.

But in any case, I agree that there is no magic pill. Just watch them for reference. Each situation is different and what counts are your core concepts

CollaterLDamage · 2018-05-29T16:43:21+00:00

Look up on YouTube pua infield. It should help get a general idea, more need to show what NOT to do but then again, you don't want to get stuck in your head

DarkArtsPUA11 · 2018-05-29T13:44:14+00:00

sure i can give you a rough "transcript" of how picking up a girl goes down

it's simple really, you approach and get her hooked. a hook is when she mentally decides that she wants to continue talking with you. once you get that you start demonstrating value. let her know that you're a high value dude and not some shmuck that just wants to take from her and offer nothing in return. at this point she will be attracted (if you are a valuable guy). now all you need to do is handle logistics. she's already okay with meeting with you, so facilitate it by getting the number and dealing with her schedule to set up a meet time. that's the basis of it when it comes to the initial pick up

Jeeper7715 · 2018-05-30T11:23:26+00:00

You’re wasting your time with this question. The guys here (and every other seduction forum) don’t actually want to help struggling guys succeed, if they did it would create more competition for them. I’m certain that successful guys have certain stories, jokes, and teases they use on virtually every approach/date they go on and they could share these things if they actually wanted to help. Instead they push out platitudes and generally useless “advice” that if an average 7 or less, non alpha tried would just come off as weird and creepy.

But then again that’s their goal because if 90% of guys approaching women are seen as creepy than that 10% that know what to say will immediately seem 10X more attractive and have an even better shot of pulling the woman.

Title	Does anybody have a direct transcript of when they’ve successfully approached and picked up a girl?
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Date	May 29, 2018 2:05 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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