I've gotten to the point I can approach girls. I can text girls over longer periods. I can have some day twos. But I feel like I am hot one minute and cold the next. I even feel it in my body. Anyone feel like this? I want to be hot for at least a lay but I can only do it for a few texts.

Kind of crazy, the girls used to drop me after a few texts. Now I can mess up a bunch of times but the girls keep me on. Only when I'm "in the zone" will they respond. Otherwise it's crickets.

Only time I've ever held a girlfriend was when I never thought about her once and made an effort not to.