Does having more options makes you more attractive?

Women_Should_Suck · 2019-07-26T16:30:56+00:00

Generally speaking, yes absolutely.

You’re more likely to seem attractive if you have options, and you’re more likely to have options if you’re attractive. They play into each other. This is especially true for men.

nsfyou2 · 2019-07-26T14:57:16+00:00

Give The Rational Male series a read. It'll answer a lot of your questions.

smnhades · 2019-07-26T14:52:10+00:00

This is a sticky situation. I used to think exactly like this, that the popular guys got lots of girls, when the reality is that they talk to girls bc they are “popular” but they don’t do shit with those girls bc honestly popular kids are pussy as fuck. Also, the levels of drama and petty bullshit that goes on with those popular guys and girls is off the charts. However to answer your question, it’s not the fact that they have a lot of girls, it’s because they are attractive or have a good personality which enables them to get girls, elevating their status. It’s all about presenting yourself as high value.

huntrlife · 2019-07-26T17:13:56+00:00

They also date more girls at one time, but this doesn't seem to bother girls,

Everyone is different brother. I'm a one-at-a-time guy. I wish I could juggle but I'm not a juggler and not worth the stress. I don't ever bring up that I'm seeing other people while on a date or something, no matter how fresh the interaction is. I feel it comes off as douchey to brag about that to a woman.

it only makes the man more attractive

My opinion on this is that women feel energy and confidence. If you have options you're less likely to come off as clingy or too "thirsty". You have the confidence to know that if you "lose this one" its not a big deal. And that kind of energy is palpable to women. (Based on my experience of course)

It looks like girls are competing for guy's attentiom if he already has a lot of female friends

This is my personal little secret. I have a small handful of close female friends. They're like sisters to me. I personally don't date in my social circle but god damn do they give me social validity with women. 1. my female friends are attractive 2. good wing-women 3. "If this guy is hanging out with these women he must have some value" 4. They consider me "one of the girls" (I'm straight) so I'm always invited to "girls nights" (but I'm also not flirting with every new girl I meet in group so it's refreshing to them)

We all have our styles. Some men can't be friends with women. I think it's important to have platonic relationships.

TheYeti01 · 2019-07-26T20:11:09+00:00

Nah it doesnt matter. Had a lot of friends both male and female and would throw massive parties. Still struggled to get women. If you struggling its alot more than your lack of friends causing your struggle, trust me..

slickestwood · 2019-07-26T20:37:02+00:00

Does having more options makes you more attractive?

Yes, absolutely. Women like men who are generally desired. The reverse is also generally true, but it's slightly different for women in a way I'm not going to be able to explain well. They want to date a high value man and being generally attractive and socially connected are both very valuable traits.

Mastergame1113 · 2019-07-26T16:08:35+00:00

I think this is the key, women are attracted to men who can develop socially, that´s the reality, in the field, you can see it if you approach a hight number of women, that´s perse generate curiosity in the other women you still didn´t approach.

In the past, i had a lack social skills, and the same we can say about women, but one day i realize interacting with them that they find attractive a man who have women in his live; even if they say bad things about them, they can´t stop talking bad things about them. read the Alabaster Girl by Zan Perrion

mackus_cristi · 2019-07-26T21:08:38+00:00

Its the opposite, ya goof. :-)

phaentum · 2019-07-26T16:42:51+00:00

Check my profile ;)

Title	Does having more options makes you more attractive?
Author	GCapablanca
Upvotes	15
Comments	11
Date	July 26, 2019 2:33 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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