I dated this girl for a few weeks and I messed up by coming on too strong. We worked together for almost a year and then met in person for the first time and she found me attractive and her personality changed and that’s when I started being interested in her. She told me she usually takes 2-3 months to like a guy but it only took her 1-2 weeks to really like me. We don’t work together anymore. We started dating after she left the company

She was just different and hit all the boxes for me and it felt natural for me to get really comfortable with her. I’ve never felt this way about someone before and I fell for her so quickly.

From my end I was coming on too strong and she felt that. 2 days before the breakup we we actively flirting and then on the day of we were sending reels to each other like normal and I noticed something was off. So I asked her to open up and she said she wasn’t sure how she was feeling but was trying to take her time because she did like me but it she’s not sure how she’s feeling. She said she’s having a hard time seeing us together long term.

I responded emotionally because I thought I was about to lose her. Big mistake on my part cause it be backfired snd she said we should ends things before it gets serious cause she didn’t want to risk me getting hurt more later on if she still wasn’t sure on her end.she said she cares about me as a person and didn’t want to her me if she couldn’t be with me. Then said she still wants me in her life as a friend

For context she brought up her concern about long term early on because she was worried her parents wouldn’t accept me as her partner. She said they’d want her to be with someone from her own culture. But I’m pretty sure the reason is more so how strong I came off which made her evaluate the long term this soon instead of later on.

We stopped talking and I reached out a week later telling her to give us another chance and she said she still wasn’t sure and didn’t want to waste my time if she had to break things off later, so she said it’s best not to. She then offered friendship again and said she still cared about me.

Would contact help in this case?