Does the approach anxiety ever go away

NineteenAD9 · 2022-02-27T00:42:08+00:00

It will eventually go away. You have to keep working your way to get out of your head. Adapt and adjust your process.

Think about how many times a skateboarder falls before finally nailing a new move and then being able to do that move successfully with consistency.

Keep at it.

A7Xnikko · 2022-02-27T04:01:16+00:00

When you realize no isn't the end of the world it does.

Creepyunclexd · 2022-02-27T14:01:43+00:00

No no no no. You should not cold approach. If you work somewhere, gym, college etc and you see someone for a number of times then you should make an approach on them. Or in clubs or bars or anywhere if a girls gives you some choosing signals or look at you only then. Just don't cold approach anyone. That is why your anxiety is not going.

Zebrahead033 · 2022-02-26T23:34:20+00:00

You mentioned you had success. All you need is 1.

1 fwb. 1 girlfriend. 1 wife.

Don't think you need to bang 1000 women to be successful.

Also 1 out of 16 isn't horrible. Not every woman is going to say yes.

Are you learning from any of your approaches or just doing the exact same thing every time?

Creative_Wallaby_439 · 2022-02-27T00:27:16+00:00

No. You just get used to it.

I used to do bmx. The anxiety i felt going up to a big jump stayed the same, i just knew what to expect

incognito3107 · 2022-02-27T08:30:30+00:00

There will come a time, when you will feel the vibe so naturally and whole process will be so automatized that anxiety will feel natural and not "bad" at all.

Title	Does the approach anxiety ever go away
Author	Lil-sam
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	February 26, 2022 11:06 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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