I know you saw this advice countless times but i can't stress this enough. When you are desperate, you send her the message of '' You are more valuable than me and i'm a nobody'' .. Don't be that guy. Even if you are desperate for some reason, just act like she has the honor to be with you and you are THE man! You can learn as much of ideas here as you want but if you show you are Needy, everything else is useless.