A lot of people lately have been moaning about not seeing results despite making lots of approaches. But are you making the same approach that you've already proved doesn't work?

A lot of elements can go into making an approach and tweaking them to find what works best for you is vital. Don't abandon an approach after one failure, but if it's consistently failing over 20-30 attempts then try something new.

What can go into an approach ? humour, confidence, sexuality, escalation, extroversion. All of these elements can be tweaked to yield different results which might suit your personality, appearance and speaking style best.

humour; make lots of jokes? make no jokes?

confidence; be arrogant and entitled? be humble and grateful?

sexuality; bring up sex talk often? never bring it up?

escalation; ask to kiss her early? don't ask at all, save it for a later date. (Always use consent before escalating tho! no matter what!)

extroversion; talk about yourself more? talk about her (listen! )more?

what elements am i missing? leave your comment

there is no 'magic formula' that works for everyone. none of these elements are better or worse or than any other at any particular level. but you need to EXPERIMENT to see what works best for YOU.

(And of course the caveat again; make lots of approaches and actually give each style and combination a fair shake. 10-20 approaches minimum for each new approach style. dont let luck be a factor. be objective)