A big aspect of seduction is about changing a "no" to a "yes" . This is true . How to turn her on and make her likely to date you.

But arguably a bigger part of "game " is simply finding girls who are already prepared to say "yes"

A lot of posts lately seem to overlook this. Dont work harder; work smarter. Dont waste your time on cold or lukewarm women . Find women already ready to go

How to do this ? Two ways ;

  1. Volume. Make lots of approaches. Approach everywhere. Day game. Night game. Online game. Dont focus your energy on just a few women or a fre places to meet women

  2. Escalate and be prepared to discard. Make your intent obvious. Do not leave her in confusion. Dont give her a chance to "use you" for anything but sex. Give a negative response to anything that diesnt lead to sex. Give a very positive response to anything that does lead to sex, and keep escalating.

Dont waste her time, dont waste your time. And if shes not down for sex; get rid of her. Stop talking to her. She doesnt align with your goals. Move on to someone new.

This includes women who dont fit your timetable. Timetables are important. How much time do you want to invest into getting laid? Some women will take 8 hours, some less, some more.

You could absolutely dedicate 16 or 32 hours or more I to sleeping with one woman and have success. But is that worth your time ?

In that time you might have found 2 or 3 other women who are more receptive. You might have been able to have more sex with more part ers if youd been working harder to find copacetic partners.

For me 8 hours is a good goal post. Any more than that and it's not worth my time. The longer you've invested the more you need to escalate. Ignore the "sunk cost fallacy"

I go;

First approach; 1-2 hours (this includes texting time )

1st date ; 1-2 hours (just coffee)

2nd date ; 3-6 hours

3rd date; 3-6 hours

If we haven't hooked up by the 2nd or 3rd date something is wrong and I start considering cutting her loose. This is a guideline only. But set your guidelines ; track them. Find what works for you. Find what you like.

Some women will be DTF after just a few hours, some might absolutely be worth more time. It's up to you. But have a gameplan and be aware that you have unlimited options for how you spend your time. And spend your time efficiently