I live near a few cafes that always have cute girls coming and going usually studying on laptops with headphones in. It's usually fairly quiet with a few groups talking. I feel like approaching a girl there the entire cafe would just look over to watch this spectacle of "what is this guy doing"? Not to mention having to ask her to remove hear headphones.'

I'm also worried that if the approach goes badly I might be asked to leave the cafe and gain a bad reputation there, a place I frequent that's just down the street from my place. That could be pretty fucking terrible.

So what's the best way to approach at a coffeeshop?