So I watched a video that made a lot of sense about going out to actually have fun and not for the sole purpose of just picking up girls. I think it's meant to be so that you're not that creepy guy who goes "dancing" at a night club and ends up either watching everyone dance, or ends up just going from hot girl to hot girl, hitting on girls, and not really interested in the actual club. Which is basically what I was doing before.

So I went out with the intent to just have fun, and dance. And enjoy myself, and not care so much about seduction per say because then it will look more like I belong there, and girls will see that I'm enjoying myself and that should add more value to me. And I actually do like dancing, so that's what I did.

As the night progressed, I danced and danced, and various groups of girls would start dancing near my vicinity. I first thought about trying to talk to them, but I was nervous and also wanted to focus more on enjoying myself. So I danced and danced and ignored all the girls around me. It was cool in a sense that the girls seemed to notice I didn't care about going around and hitting on girls, and was fully into the music and dancing. So I'm thinking they were just comfortable around me.

At the end of the night, I went up after a lot of fun dancing. But a part of me feels like I missed a lot of opportunities to try to pick up girls.

Did I do the right thing? Should have tried hitting on girls, or is it better to really get comfortable with just going out and having fun without girls first?

Thanks guys