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[–]Austonmatthews345 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I always start my dates off with a hug. Boom touch barrier broken.
[–]falsem0ve 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed. Not awkward at all. If she agreed to go on the date she's interested at least a little bit. Hugs are natural.
[–]TheLimitlessMale 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You slowly increasing touching.
Start with a hand shake or elbow touch
Move on to a hug/hold her hand when you move her places.
Kiss her gently
Kiss her more passionately
etc.
[–]spenrose22 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hand or arm touch, easy if she’s wearing jewelry and you can point it out saying you like it while touching it. Then when you’re walking somewhere you can casually (important, nothing is a big deal) put your hand on her lower back to lead her. Also can put your arm around her if it’s an acceptable environment sitting somewhere. Then you can pull her into you by her waist and kiss her later. These are really the only key ones I’ve ever needed. The more the better tho, as long as it’s casual and she’s feeling it.
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[–]guyinaustin 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think I know what you meant, but be careful. Rapport building and escalation aren't generally considered same thing.
[–]rikleeRed42 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A slight Lower back touch
[–]amohnacs 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
-Hug when you meet not a handshake.
-Make sure you sit NEXT to her or something similar. Not across the table. This way when you sit with a wide posture (as you should as an alpha) you're in her space a lil bit and she just has to relax a little and your calves/thighs/knees will touch or rest against each other
-You should be leading her around the venue "HEY! Check out the view I want to show you!". Hand on her lower back or just reach down and grab her hand. If you go for it confidently she'll love it.
-Super intense, unflinching eye contact
-"So <her name> I have to tell you something..." gently grab her arm or rest your hand on hers
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