Essential reading material?

DaygameCoach · 2015-01-01T23:06:01+00:00

Which two? You listed 3.

I recommend Art of Sedution by Robert Greene, and some body language books: Superflirt and Superdate by Tracey Cox. You Say More Than You Think (Janine Drver) is good too and I helped test it out. If you need help with directness try Mode 1.

ReallyBigShoes · 2015-01-01T21:47:50+00:00

I just picked up No More Mr. Nice guy... It seems pretty scary how accurate it is at defining the nice guy...

StarwaysCongress · 2015-01-02T00:58:39+00:00

The Manual by W. Anton is hands down the best book on female psychology, masculinity, and seduction I've ever read.

Wrote a 10 page paper based on its content for my sociology class. Got a 100%.

ymiapheramone · 2015-01-01T20:48:01+00:00

Books like "No More Mr Nice Guy" aren't really books about seduction. It's really more of a self improvement book which makes seduction much easier. (In some cases, its self improvement which enables it. If you get what I mean.)

If you remember how in No More Mr Nice Guy he talk about how nice guys sabotage their relationships because they don't believe they worth it you'll see how essentially it's a problem of self esteem.

Theres a really good book over this called "The Six Pillars of Self Esteem" which focuses on the topics much more precisely than what is outlined in No More Mr Nice Guy. There was a really good post about it a couple days ago.

I was a heavy sedditor back in the days until I kind of broke off and did my own thing for a year or two before coming back with my own experiences so my approach to seduction is very much my own and loosely based on what is on this subreddit.

I believe that seduction starts with a strong self esteem and confidence in oneself. Everything else on top of that is just experience/thinking on your feet. I don't care much for technique because I feel it makes me feel rehearsed/fake. Hence I highly recommend books such as this one. Give it a try if you want.

dieswole · 2015-01-01T23:47:13+00:00

DAE think way of the superior man is very awkwardly written and difficult to digest?

Hashisme · 2015-01-02T15:13:45+00:00

I just finished the Guide to Body Language by Allan pease, good book to read people, not only in courtship but also at job meetings, social gatherings and friendlier settings. There's also a body language book named What Every Body is Saying by Joe Navarro that I recommend. He's an ex-FBI so his book builds on noticing the off things (because that's how he busted smugglers and criminals).

Both books are good IMO but Pease is probably more relevant to pickup.

nathand50444 · 2015-01-01T23:26:54+00:00

Anyone willing to give up their hardcopy of 'No more Mr Nice Guy' to a better home? Been wanting to read it for a while.

Title	Essential reading material?
Author	jellealter
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Date	January 1, 2015 8:07 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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