New to seddit and have been doing alot of reading and been working on some of the things i've learned. Seems as I remember alot of this from when I was single - and much of it is what lead to my divorce in the first place.

I'm early 40's and have an event this weekend where many people know me and my ex and know us as a couple. There will be a lot of married wingwomen there working for the single moms and covering for them while they hit the wine tasting, etc.... my ex won't be there and I will have an opportunity to move in on quite a few and open some sets and get some plates spinning.

I am expecting many shit tests along the lines of "sorry to hear" etc...

Need some negs and alpha responses that not bash the ex - "i see why she divorced you" and so on.

Thx