I personally believe that seduction is a skill. It takes time to learn and you cant give up. However just like a doctor has years of training, I have had my real life training. Do you know any naturals that can just walk up to a group of girls, be the center of their attention, while knowing nothing about PUA. He have had training, maybe in high school he used to talk to everyone, maybe he got a part time jobs talking to people.
I think that you can build yourself, through things that you do. In high school I didnt speak english that good so I was a "loser". After high school I got a job where I would go to stranger house, greet them, build their trust and get their information for energy check. I was talking to 100+ strangers a day, turning from a shy boy into a confident man that look into your eyes. I have also had other jobs that made me into who I am.
I also had the luck of being friend with 3 HB10. I would be the only guy when we go to the mall that I was scared people think Im the gay guy of the group. It made me feel completely comfortable with beautiful women, they are human after all with flaws, emotions and love.
Anyways what I am trying to say is that you create who you are by your actions, passions and self-believe. It takes years to change but it is worth it to be yourself instead of pretending and imitating actions of an alpha.
So here is what I do whenever I go sarging. I would walk up to a group, being friendly, I dont know why but I love talking to stranger. I would single out a girl, my thought process then would be
"hhmm I think she has potential, let me see how far I can push her and lets play with her a little bit"
I used to use gambits such as palm reading, cold reading, patterning, ect.. but now I found that I dont need that stuff if I'm just being myself.
Kinoing is very important. The trick to being a good kinoer is being comfortable with yourself and dont think about it. If you have to think about touching her hair, hands, then you are not comfortable. Kinoing is just making a girl comfortable with your touch and keep pushing it little by little. You start with the shoulder, hand, then move up to face neck, waist. If a girl is attracted to you, and she is comfortable with your touch then kissing is easy as pie. One of my indication if a girl is ready for a kiss is if I hold her hand, smile at her and she smile back.
Another tips I want to tell you guys is to love yourself. There is only one person that will never leave you and that is you. I used to care for this one girl more than a care about myself. She was a model and I started learning about PUA to seduce her. As you know it, if you care for girl more than yourself then you have lost the game, oneitis.
Loving yourself is to treat yourself good and do what you want. I love motorcycle that is one of my passion. I go to the gym 3 times a week to take care of myself. I work hard in school and at my job because I care for myself. I dont think that you should even talk to girls if you are not happy with your life. If you have your life together, for some reason you just give off an attractive vibe that is irresistible to women.
Thank you for reading if you made it this far. I'm just rambling from the afterglow of MDMA and all of these might sound really stupid to you guys. I hope you guys live life and learn. When you walk up to that HB10, your whole life was destined for it.
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