Exercise: Your best "in state" story

woeisyou · 2012-03-04T18:46:55+00:00

My story (some specifics are omitted):

I'd been building a large social circle in my town for a while - really focusing on getting out there and meeting people (not just cute women) for a while. I was part of a volunteer group that was holding a giant event for charity, and I got almost everyone I knew in town to go.

On the downside, or so I thought, there were a couple girls coming who I had some history with. I had screwed up massively with #1 (got drunk and hit on her excessively) and the #2 had just friend-zoned me after a couple dates.

I started the night off hot, though, by flirting with one of the girls working the event - we bantered about proper selling technique (she was selling stuff for charity). Many of my friends show up - I basically play the introduction game and introduce everyone to everyone. Girl #1 (who I had screwed up with before) came and acted surprisingly extremely positive toward me - so it seemed as though my screw-up was not permanent. That put me in an even better mood and we ended up flirting a lot throughout the night, though I didn't push my luck there.

Girl #2 (who friend-zoned me earlier) got there as well. The rest of the night was a blur of my bantering with people, introducing them to one another, flirting with just about every girl, and having an amazing night. I kinoed a lot - and when I started kinoing Girl #2, she started leaning in and clearly was enjoying it. In the end, I took her home - she was the cutest girl there, after all (solid HB9).

What made it awesome?

I had massive social proof since everyone I knew was there.
Instead of going to work that day, I helped set the event up - so I was talking and joking with people all day instead of sitting at my desk and not being social.
I ate well that day - lots of fruit, protein, and such.
I talked to everyone and brought value to everyone I came in contact with by introducing other people.
I dressed killer. Suited up.
The event itself helped a lot - it was a friendly event where everyone was meeting people, and there was a ton of things to do and entertain ourselves with.
I used kino like crazy with everyone.
I drank enough to get buzzed but didn't get drunk.
I flirted with everyone, but at a certain point I chose a target (Girl #2) and stuck with her, building rapport + comfort

breadrising · 2012-03-05T21:25:33+00:00

One of my best nights was a few weekends ago, and I didn't even get laid. It was just one of the nights I felt like the man.

Went to two parties in the same night; one house party and one gathering at a bar. First, at the house party, I was just casually talking/drinking when one of my good female friends comes up to me (she was the only one in the group I really knew, and I was trying my best to get to know everyone) and whispers "I just wanted to let you know, my girlfriends think you're really hot."

"Which ones?" I responded.

"Take your pick." She said back. That was seriously amazing to hear. I mean, I had made that good of an impression that every girl there was swooning over me? Damn. That was flattering.

Then one of her more drunk friends approached me later on in the evening and said, "So we've all been wondering what your body looks like. You look like you're in awesome shape. Maybe you should take your shirt off, so we can stop arguing about it." Again, this was flattering as hell, but I didn't want to be that guy at the party who takes his shirt off to show off his body. So I just casually said "Well get me some shots later and we'll see what happens." Within 20 minutes though my ride was ready to go to the next party, so we left.

At the bar, we were casually hanging on the dance floor, when I got approached by two girls with Sharpies that glow in black light bulbs. They asked if they could draw on me, and I obliged. They starting lifting up my shirt and coloring designs all over. We all danced together for about 30 minutes, but they had to leave because their ride was wanting to do. One slips me her number, whispers "Stop being so damn cute," and runs off.

In one night, I got more attention than I ever had in my life, and didn't even get sex for it. It still was an amazing feeling and an incredible confidence boost.

woeisyou · 2012-03-05T20:07:32+00:00

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woeisyou · 2012-03-05T00:22:17+00:00

I am in state every single second of my life. There is never a moment where I am not a god amongst men.

The difference between a "so-so" night and an absolutely amazing night is if I'm there or not there.

Factors that make a night awesome? Me existing.

Sorry for not contributing. :(

Title	Exercise: Your best "in state" story
Author	woeisyou
Upvotes	16
Comments	7
Date	March 4, 2012 6:45 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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