Quick question for the seddit community. I keep running into this and i've found that I never really know how to handle it.

Girls once in a while will do something that pisses me off. For instance, I had one girl tell me she was going to meet up with me at an event, then took and hour to get there because she ran into a friend and "lost track of time". It wasn't quite a "date" since we were just meeting up with friends, but it was obviously still uncool that she was so late when she told me she'd be there sooner.

Last night I also had an incident, where I texted a girl (this time a friend) that I was on my way to the bar she was at. She left the bar before I got there, without telling me that she was leaving. Now, i'm pretty sure she just was not paying attention (it's not like she was avoiding me, she actually was headed to the bar I was at previously). But it still pissed me off that she wasn't looking closely enough at her text messages and I ended up walking 30mins to meet her when she wasn't there.

What's the best way to handle these types of situations? I want to call her on her shit, but I obviously don't want to do so in such a way that makes it seem like i'm all butthurt and bitter. These also aren't first-date situations where it's much easier to just walk away from a girl if she pulls this shit - the first was an LTR and the second is a female friend of mine.