I used to someone who heavily filtered what they said, which led to me feeling tongue tied and honestly just not enjoying conversation very much.

A while ago I read a quote from Dr Suess that goes something like 'say what you think and think what you say / those who matter won't mind what you say / those who mind don't matter anyway'

I don't think that adage holds true in a workplace, but I started to develop that sort of attitude towards dating. I mean, If you don't feel like you can be yourself around someone, why the fuck would you choose to spend time with them?

Well that's basically turned into me over disclosing everything about myself, and I can see how it's probably coming across as being off putting.

Anyway where do you guys draw the line between saying whatever is on your mind, expressing vulnerability or personal info, and remaining stoic and mysterious on a date?