Eye contact

Adventurous-Poem-403 · 2024-02-29T04:24:20+00:00

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MadonatorxD · 2024-02-29T05:35:06+00:00

They don't even look at you for a second? People look at me for a second, analyze I am ugly and then break the eye contact. I guess. Lol.

ScaryTonight2748 · 2024-02-29T06:41:35+00:00

You gotta remember too that girls are sneaky af lol they don't get caught looking like we do unless they want to get caught. So you won't even know who is or isn't checking you out 90% of the time. They are usually going to be way more subtle and make you have to become a fucking expert on body language and even then you'll be wrong more often than you're right. The most successful all say its a numbers game and it just a matter of not caring when you're wrong and just going for it and not being bothered by the rejections though obviously harder said than done.

This made me think of something that has always fucked with my head tho. When i see other people making eye contact and their eyes focus from one eye to the other as far as where they are directed at the person they are looking at and start thinking about it. So then i always wonder when I'm making eye contact if that shit just happens naturally and I do it too without knowing or if i am just looking at one eye and fucking it up and then it stresses me out lmao i still don't really know. this just made me think of it its one of those weird things that i think about. I'm glad i saw this cuz i just now for the first time looked it up out of curiosity just now. My my chatgpt-4 says this

"When making eye contact during conversation, people's eye movements can vary. Typically, a natural and comfortable pattern of eye contact doesn't involve staring fixedly at one point, such as a single eye, nor does it usually involve rapidly shifting back and forth between both eyes in a noticeable manner. Instead, individuals tend to look at one eye for a bit, then the other, and often at the bridge of the nose or the general facial area around the eyes. This pattern creates a more relaxed and engaging interaction, allowing for a connection that feels both attentive and comfortable.
Moreover, the duration and intensity of eye contact can be influenced by a variety of factors, including cultural norms, social contexts, personal comfort levels, and the nature of the relationship or interaction between the individuals involved. In some cultures, direct eye contact is seen as a sign of respect and attentiveness, while in others, it might be considered too intense or disrespectful. Similarly, too much direct eye contact can sometimes be perceived as aggressive or confrontational, whereas too little may be seen as disinterest or avoidance.
Effective eye contact involves a balance, maintaining attention and engagement without causing discomfort. People naturally break eye contact at intervals to process information, think, or reduce the intensity of the interaction, which is a normal part of conversational flow."

TRTGymBro · 2024-02-29T12:14:18+00:00

Well, I can tell you that the act of "looking" for IOIs is actually causing you to get no IOIs. I know weird, right! But hear me out.

Women never want what they can't get and only want what they can't get. A guy who is constantly looking for IOIs and trying to get permission to approach is actually a guy who is needy. You need the IOIs as validation and as a clue that you can start feeling good about yourself. It basically comes across as "please look at me and notice me and acknowledge that I am attractive to you, please, please, it's very important to me". This needy vibe tells women you are what they can get, therefore they are not interested.

I would stop actively fishing for IOIs. As a matter of fact, try going for 3-5 days without looking at women at all. Just focus on some important goal in your mind and walk everywhere with a purpose staring straight ahead and a little bit above the horizon. Ignore women. After 3 days start casually looking around you every once in a while. I bet that you will start catching g a lot more women checking you out.

DaygameCode · 2024-02-29T14:46:27+00:00

The way you look can sometimes even cause women to blush if done right. There are various types of gazes that can evoke different reactions.

Intense gaze: A focused and penetrating look that conveys strong emotions or intentions.
Affectionate gaze: A soft, warm look that communicates fondness, care, or love.
Seductive gaze: A suggestive and alluring look intended to arouse desire or attraction.
Playful gaze: A mischievous or teasing look often accompanied by a smile or wink.
Soulful gaze: A deep and meaningful look that seems to peer into the depths of one's soul, often conveying empathy or understanding.
Aggressive gaze: A sharp, intense stare that communicates dominance, assertiveness, or hostility. It can make the recipient feel intimidated or challenged.
Puppy dog gaze: A soft, pleading look characterized by wide eyes and a slight tilt of the head, reminiscent of a puppy seeking attention or affection. It often evokes feelings of tenderness, sympathy, or a desire to nurture.

And you can even break down seductive gazes further:

Sultry gaze: A smoldering, suggestive look that exudes sensuality and allure, often accompanied by a slight smirk or parted lips.
Flirtatious gaze: A playful and coy look that hints at romantic or sexual interest, typically involving brief glances and subtle gestures.
Smoldering gaze: A smoky, intense stare filled with passion and desire, often characterized by half-lidded eyes and a seductive smile.
Tempting gaze: Employ a seductive smile while locking eyes with your target. Use subtle movements like biting your lip or running your fingers through your hair to add to the allure, conveying a sense of forbidden temptation.

ROBYoutube · 2024-02-29T02:48:10+00:00

I pay absolutely no attention whatsoever to 99.9999999% of people on my way to work. That includes dozens and dozens of smoking hot women.

If I'm not giving out 'ioi's' to smoking hot babes 24/7 as some old fat guy, why would they be giving 'ioi's' out to guys they deem 'fine, I guess'?

I want to find the person responsible for the concept of 'ioi's' and tell them to log off.

Stop staring at women trying to catch their eye. Stop looking for IOI's.

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2024-02-29T16:36:36+00:00

The whole idea of IOI's is for a woman to get you to notice her. If you are talking to her and she thinks you aren't interested she will send you IOIs.

You are defeating the purpose by staring at her.

Title	Eye contact
Author	throwawaybclmao
Upvotes	14
Comments	11
Date	February 29, 2024 2:40 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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