Fake Self Confidence VS Real Self Confidence

Lord_Augastus · 2017-06-15T01:03:59+00:00

This guy makes interesting distinction between real vs fake confidence in the type of woman he was trying to pick up/meet. After seeing some of the pick up videos, they do have a tendency of having this Alpha confidence about them, maybe fake, maybe genuine. But they do emphasise that being yourself is more important than acting confidently. This video has a different take on that same notion.

it's more important to be confident and knowing who you are rather than putting on a persona and acting confident until you start to feel confident. Its important to distinguish the fake confidence when starting approaching women or indeed anything in life with personal encouragement to commint that act. Yes its good to pretend to be confident until you find your confidence, but its more important to just realise who you are, not to fight it, not to constantly live in the who you want to be world, a world where you constantly fight who you are and thus feel insecure about your self and your actions. Its easier said than done.

One, you have at least an idea of who you want to be, and if that person is at least still you and not a version of yourself in someone elses shoes than replacing fake confidence with real genuine confidence will become easier. It should be noted that confidence in itself isnt about acting confident, its being comfortable with who you are and your actions. Its knowing what you want and actively taking steps towards that. A less confident person will second guess his choices, be living in the past, letting mistakes drag them down.

knifpearty · 2017-06-15T05:48:40+00:00

“Confidence comes from knowing what to do” Someone said this and it stuck with me.

On a side note: If you can not draw properly, don't make videos like that. They look fake and the inconsistent styles are hugely distracting. Or better yet: draw stick men. Everyone can do that and those do the job just fine.

Title	Fake Self Confidence VS Real Self Confidence
Author	djdante
Upvotes	37
Comments	9
Date	June 14, 2017 11:00 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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