You've Got To Get These 3 Things Sorted Before Trying To Attract Women

Gathan · 2018-03-27T02:43:06+00:00

This good advice for life in general.

Always found it amusing how much cross over there is between good life advise and good pickup advise

BestOfPUA · 2018-03-27T02:56:52+00:00

I rarely upvote marketing posts from PUA companies here. You can look at my post history and see how many times I shit talked PUAs trying to promote their business here.

That being said, FUCKING LISTEN to this guy!!! I am so much impressed with him giving out these 3 facts, I even subscribed to his channel.

On the other hand, he mentioned 3 important parts that needs fixing, without actually giving applicable steps about how to fix them. This video would have been great if he also added some section talking about what steps should a person take to fix those areas.

iedaiw · 2018-03-27T04:06:25+00:00

Tl;dw?

exquisito111 · 2018-03-27T01:39:35+00:00

Boom! I wasted years trying to learn pickup before I learned this

Swooz1e · 2018-03-27T01:47:56+00:00

I feel like I really do have good friends, but they just wouldn't understand that I want to learn this stuff thats whyI don't tell them, but they'd always be there for me at the end of the day

sedditaccount127 · 2018-03-27T05:46:12+00:00

First off, thanks for posting this content, even though I disagree with it.

This video makes me really angry -- we all have seen plenty of people who don't have their lives figured out, people living in depression, drug abuse, anxiety, and so on who do well with women. And now you are telling us that they are better than us?

Please don't tell me I need to have "my life figured out" or I don't deserve the attention of women. It's an impossible standard because NO ONE ever has their life completely figured out. And for many guys, their lives suck precisely because of this major insecurity they have about their virginity.

It is so much harder to build a good career out of a bad one, develop lasting friendships out of total solitude, or find your direction in life from complete anomie than to sleep with a woman. It's like saying you need to buy a 747 jet to get peanuts. If you can help me find deep human connection in this crazy life, that's great, tell me that -- it's more important than sex. But if you can't, if you don't have those answers (and honestly, who does) please just tell me how to overcome my fear of touching women. Tell me how I can create opportunities to approach them outside of my social circles that will judge me for failing. What are the nuts and bolts here, that no one ever taught me?

For god's sakes, man, if you've got it all figured out, why are you uploading vids getting just a few hundred views on youtube? Why are you living in denial of your hairline? Why do you have sunken eyes that scream "insomnia"? No one has it figured out, man. The students you see who have solid lives outside of game -- they were just better people to begin with: more talented, more intelligent, less emotionally broke. And yeah, that helps with women. But it's not as if they conquered the "defeat loneliness stage," passed go, collected two hundred dollars and their free pussy.

Kenic_In_MD · 2018-03-27T02:54:33+00:00

Great tips in this one!

blunt_eastwood · 2018-03-27T17:07:59+00:00

So in other words, read Models and follow the action plan?

gmos905 · 2018-03-27T14:39:40+00:00

Would have like a TL;DW in the description as I don't enjoy watching videos as much, but great advice nonetheless.

Top quality post mate.

wow_wow01 · 2018-03-27T23:27:29+00:00

ijezzal · 2018-03-27T09:40:31+00:00

Great to hear that I don't have any chances according to that guy because I have zero true friends and don't think I ever will. Guess since I'm not normal I should just go and die.

Aeon199 · 2018-03-27T05:02:05+00:00

Your truth bomb is common sense to normal men (we call NTs in the autistic community) because without a social/cognitive impairment, basically you are able to follow what everyone else does, and you're able to put theory into action. Autistic men are generally disabled in both of those functions.

The men who need your truth bomb "good career/social circle/blabla" are generally those men who cannot meet that standard. Count me as one of them. But there are a lot of guys out there like this, I guess in this forum I'm the only one vocal about it. I'm not going to be a career guy who knows everyone. I am who i am, mate, and I'm not ashamed to say I am a disabled adult basically. That means I need a different strategy. If I could "be a career man who knows everyone in the community" I would be. But that's not my path since I literally can't take that path, and if you disagree about my limits, that's just ignorance.

If you're interested in helping you should address ways to circumvent "lack of career/lack of social circle." Unless you believe both are utterly required to attract a woman in the first place, then you shouldn't.

But I disagree. I can't do anything well in life, and women are lining up outside my door.. or at least they will be, once I start approaching. I don't need my life in order.

NACHTK1113R · 2018-03-27T07:00:04+00:00

Platonic friends are worthless, nobody actually needs them.

Title	You've Got To Get These 3 Things Sorted Before Trying To Attract Women
Author	djdante
Upvotes	240
Comments	44
Date	March 27, 2018 1:30 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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