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If you don't trust something you will fear it. LMAO
/r/seduction24/09/19 05:52 PM
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Look-up Diana Davison and the lighthouse project. They work to help innocent men find evidence that prooves their innocence in cases of false rape allegations. Keep us updated here friend.
/r/MGTOW11/09/19 01:52 PM
0

You are correct about all that. However it is very well written and enjoyable otherwise so I give it a pass. I am not an SJW and I don't judge art based on its political message, but on the quality of the art itself
/r/MGTOW06/09/19 09:24 PM
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I hate to break it to you...
/r/seduction06/09/19 02:58 PM
2

Oh interesting. I don't think it would work that way in the US, but IANAL. Thanks for the clarification
/r/MGTOW23/08/19 01:37 PM
2

This will likely fail if he signed the birth certificate.
/r/MGTOW23/08/19 01:06 PM
5

The look in his eyes - so dead inside.
/r/MGTOW23/08/19 12:44 PM
1

Here's a 6 year old post of mine that helped a lot of guys. In particular check out the video linked in there on body language: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/102wst/how_to_learn_pickup_from_the_internet_lesson_1/?st=jzn60t02&sh=d64ba1e7
/r/seduction22/08/19 08:57 PM
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A few pointers: Clean up you facial hair. Doesn't need to be clean-shaven but the scraggly stuff has to go Work on your V-taper. Don't neglect your shoulder muscles when you work out and get your waste as small as possible. Posture Smile so that you look like you are having a better time than everyone else. That shit is contagious!
/r/seduction22/08/19 08:38 PM
3

Tell that to Marshawn Lynch lol
/r/MGTOW16/08/19 12:44 PM
1

One thing that helped me when I was feeling bad about myself... step 1: Look yourself in the eye in the mirror step 2: Say "I love you" and mean it step 3: repeat once a day for 30 days ​ You will be amazed by how much your mood improves.
/r/seduction01/08/19 02:47 PM
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Doesn't seem like you really wanted to be helped.
/r/seduction28/01/19 04:40 PM
2

Men are success objects in the way that women are viewed as sex objects. Except wider society is ok with viewing men as success objects. You don't need success to be good at attracting the opposite sex, but it is really helpful.
/r/seduction25/01/19 04:34 AM
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I'm not sure this is the best advice imo. You don't want to be arbitrarily making friends when you are in the mindset he is in. Likely to either place himself in a worse social hierarchy, accidentally creep people out, or waste his time on vapid things when he should be studying. He is young and advancing himself in life now is going to be potentially more rewarding than frivolous pursuits, especially when it is likely to land him with false friends. But maybe it is the best thing for him. Don't…
/r/seduction25/01/19 04:32 AM
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How many hours a week do you spend on school, roughly? This includes class time, homework, commuting etc.
/r/seduction25/01/19 03:11 AM
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I can help you out with this. But first you have to honestly answer a few questions about yourself. The first one is the most important: How do you spend the majority of your time each week? Be brutally honest.
/r/seduction25/01/19 02:09 AM
0

Sure but you still lost the argument
/r/seduction11/12/18 04:44 PM
1

So, you're arguing now about marriage being wrong. Wait what? I literally wrote the opposite of that. My argument is that people could choose to wait until marriage regardless of social conditioning. I understand your claim to be the opposite, which is to say people wait until marriage only because of social conditioning. I argued that not only are there reasons that one might wait (reasons unrelated to the social construct of marriage) but even if people do wait due to the social construct that…
/r/seduction11/12/18 01:18 PM
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Ok so the only part I didn't address was a social construct. I think it goes hand in hand with social conditioning as they are two sides of the same coin. But here is a different response: Just because something is a social construct doesn't mean it is wrong. Laws are constructs, but you would be remiss if you murdered someone and defended yourself by saying "no one wants to follow laws. This is how humans naturally would behave without the social conditioning or these social constructs." People…
/r/seduction26/10/18 01:13 PM
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Go back and read your initial point. You wrote that people only wait until marriage because of social conditioning. I responded that is not the only reason people wait and gave an example of another reason people might give for waiting. There are many reasons why people wait. You then responded with a straw man by suggesting I was saying ALL people wait because they look up the statistics. Which is clearly not what I wrote. Learn 2 logic
/r/seduction25/10/18 01:23 PM
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Don't put words in my mouth (so to speak). I didn't make a straw man. Do you know what a straw man even is? I responded directly to your statement ("Not one of us wants to wait for an arbitrary day") with a valid counter argument ("Actually some do want to wait for perfectly valid non-faithbased reasons"). Then you responded saying that I said ALL people who wait are waiting for the same reason. Which is a straw man. Learn 2 logic
/r/seduction25/10/18 01:04 PM
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That's not what I said. But I understand why you would use a straw man here. Much easier to argue against.
/r/seduction25/10/18 11:17 AM
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Fair.
/r/seduction24/10/18 10:35 PM
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That's not true at all! There are valid, non-religious reasons to want to wait until marriage. For example, one could base that decision on empirical data regarding the happiness and sex life of those who do wait versus those who don't alone. Those who wait tend to have better sex lives and be much happier in their marriage than those who don't. That's purely based on statistics.
/r/seduction24/10/18 08:50 PM
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Not at all. It's a direct response to your assertion that she is expecting him to make a move. Because she might not be. And to me it sounds like she isn't but maybe I'm reading it wrong. Sounds like she is uncomfortable moving past kissing and encouraging OP to ignore that is really bad advice. I agree with you though. If it's going no where he should move on if he isn't getting what he wants.
/r/seduction24/10/18 08:36 PM
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Instructions unclear Now I have an Orca dick
/r/seduction24/10/18 08:13 PM
3

They're finger-lingling good!
/r/seduction24/10/18 08:12 PM
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Bro then explain to me why so many people wait for marriage? The reason is that people have rational self control that overrides our evolutionary instincts. They overlook short-term pleasure for long term happiness. That's what discipline is. As long as we agree that if the women says "I don't want this" you should stop then we have mutual common ground. I would like to point out that it sounds like the girl in this situation is indicating she is uncomfortable moving forward beyond kissing... Bu…
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:58 PM
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Boom. Roasted.
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:51 PM
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Hey dipshit. If a women doesn't want to have sex it's rape. But that's entirely beside the point I made above. Learn reading comprehension - let me clue you in... Masculinity doesn't mean amorality
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:50 PM
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FYI I'm an IT nerd who plays videogames. Still got game 😉
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:43 PM
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This is so toxic and honestly sounds kinda rapey. The reason should be obvious... Either she's not comfortable with it (which it sounds like it is the case) or he isn't. Either way, fuck you for trying to shame him for not having sex.
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:37 PM
2

This is excellent!
/r/seduction11/10/18 02:25 AM
2

Yes exactly. Biceps and pecs are the male equivalent of boobs and ass when it comes to attraction.
/r/seduction18/07/18 05:09 PM
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This might be true for a very small portion of the population. But I think most guys can put on muscle enough to get an FWB situation
/r/seduction18/07/18 03:44 PM
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I like to think of it as broadening my standards
/r/seduction18/07/18 03:43 PM
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I usually can't watch your videos when I see them posted here. So thank you for the TL;Dw This seems like really good advice and I will try to practice it.
/r/seduction10/07/18 02:41 PM
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Everyone has their own obstacles and peaks. I have bad asthma, when I started out running I couldn't run for 5 minutes straight. Eventually doing a sub 10 minute mile was a big deal for me. This is analogous. But I bet there's nothing you struggle with, right my man? 😉
/r/seduction05/07/18 11:52 PM
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This is good advice, but I think dinners are fine. Just harder.
/r/seduction05/07/18 11:49 PM
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The foundation is that it is pretty difficult to seduce someone through text. A text conversation is more likely to do nothing for you or even hurt you than it is to help you.
/r/seduction05/07/18 04:08 PM
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What? Haha how is that an insult?
/r/seduction03/07/18 12:12 PM
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Do you post in incel groups at all? If so, I want to know you. PM me and I'll try to give you personalized advice.
/r/seduction03/07/18 12:12 PM
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"Oh hey are these your friends or your parents?"
/r/seduction03/07/18 12:08 PM
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Life goes on. Live a little, learn a lot.
/r/seduction02/07/18 11:34 PM
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One time when I was new at this, a girl I found very attractive turned to me and point blank said, "Do you want to fuck me?" In a crowded room at a party. Mind went completely black and my face turned red and I failed the shit test.
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:48 PM
1

Good question. I recommend reading up on it. You can start here: https://www.arinanikitina.com/body-language-of-the-eyes.html
/r/seduction02/07/18 12:04 PM
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I use to think like you did. But it's true that people express far more with their eyes than with smiles. You don't have to express sexual intent with your eyes, you can express a lot with them (especially unintentionally).
/r/seduction01/07/18 04:55 PM
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I would do it. It's risky, but all you are risking is your embarrassment and a barista job (no offense). In terms of what to say, I sometimes like to start the conversation with an observation or an educated guess about what they were just up to or what they are going to do this weekend. It can pique a girl's interest. In other environments and for higher paying jobs I'd say no.
/r/seduction29/06/18 02:02 PM
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You need to develop discipline.
/r/seduction29/06/18 01:56 PM
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It varies from person to person. Not cut and dry
/r/seduction29/06/18 01:51 PM
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Two things: It's ok to say the club isn't your scene there's plenty of other places to meet women. Especially for guys who aren't used to clubs, when you walk into a club environment you can kinda get "stunned." It is so much overload in sound, lights and people that it can be a shock. And that shock can wreck your frame which will make you feel like a chode. You can get over this just by going to clubs more and relaxing. Try dancing to the music until you feel fully relaxed. Mindfulness meditat…
/r/seduction27/06/18 11:03 PM
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Title is clickbait. Only watched 3minutes but this doesn't seem very different from what RSD teaches. But some good advice in that 3 minutes - though stuff most people have heard before.
/r/seduction27/06/18 07:02 PM
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Fuck what normal people do. I choose abnormality and exceptionalism.
/r/seduction26/06/18 11:10 PM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction25/06/18 07:20 PM
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Keep lifting and don't let it get to ya. Freshman year can be tough for guys. Except for few, you are at the bottom of the totem pole. You will find your experience improves this coming year and part of that will be because you are a sophomore and no longer a pledge in your frat. It sounds like you are working out this summer and that will help too. Work specifically on eye contact, body language and kino and you'll be doing great this year, I promise.
/r/seduction25/06/18 06:55 PM
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Make her feel the most beautiful woman in the world. "Give me your hand! You must touch Aishwarya Rai!" - me picking up chicks.
/r/seduction20/06/18 09:58 PM
3

As the poor English and headline style would suggest:. This is not a very good article.
/r/seduction20/06/18 09:55 PM
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Ah that's your problem right there. Do the line of coke before your approaches and see if you are still afraid. don't actually do this, coke is very addicting
/r/seduction20/06/18 05:00 PM
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Man I gotta get into tech sales... Work in IT now.
/r/seduction19/06/18 09:43 PM
2

Do you hit your numbers?
/r/seduction16/06/18 09:04 PM
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You need to feel it out. If she is giving you a lot of iois then offer to go to either your place or hers for tea. Or you could offer to walk with her for a bit if you feel she needs more time to get comfortable with you. If you dont think she wants to hang out more with you that night, then I recommend going for the kiss close. Girls like that; it’s sweet and leaves things at a nice close. On a crowded NYC street it shows you are ballsy and girls like that in a guy. But its not necessary if you…
/r/seduction16/06/18 04:03 PM
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Great post! First approach is something to be proud of. Very by the book and smooth. Sorry you’re going through shit, but you’ll regret it if you let it stop your momentum right now. Keep going!
/r/seduction16/06/18 03:06 PM
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Por que no los dos?
/r/seduction16/06/18 12:56 AM
1

I’m curious about this as well.
/r/seduction14/06/18 08:52 PM
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It’s also a different power dynamic. Women are in a state of abundance on Tinder because Tinder dudes are thirsty AF... to use the parlance of our times.
/r/seduction14/06/18 08:33 PM
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I don't know. It's on my external offline hard drive.
/r/seduction14/06/18 03:49 PM
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Lol you're either already good at this stuff, or you never will be. If you need the advice, read it.
/r/seduction14/06/18 12:44 PM
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Good job! I think the one I have is in its original English.
/r/seduction14/06/18 04:34 AM
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That's a good one!
/r/seduction14/06/18 02:40 AM
1

Get it my dude! Absorb all they know and I hope that this opportunity sets you up well in life. Much cooler than an observatory!
/r/seduction14/06/18 01:13 AM
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Yup
/r/seduction13/06/18 10:35 PM
1

This is probably true. I did try to mention that you have to mean it when you say it. If you are unable to mean it (that's a mental block I think is rare - most people love themselves just don't like to admit it) then follow the above advice. I'm not a registered therapist so take my advice on how to get over depression with a grain of salt. It's just what worked for me.
/r/seduction13/06/18 09:40 PM
1

Having a list is good. Get through ALL of it.
/r/seduction13/06/18 09:34 PM
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They're all good and valuable. But I understood your question to be "where to start first?" I'd start with The Game. But that's just IMHO.
/r/seduction13/06/18 09:26 PM
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I made this post a while back to answer this exact question (and a couple other questions too). How to Learn Pick-Up from the Internet - Lesson #1 (response to blackhatseduction's post) http://reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/102wst/how_to_learn_pickup_from_the_internet_lesson_1/ Outside of this the first book I recommend is The Game by Neil Strauss. While The Game won't teach much about pick up itself. It will explain it's origin and evolution which are both very important to understand.
/r/seduction13/06/18 09:22 PM
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Alpha's provide an abundance of value to those around them. Remember that always. And never be a beta who wants to suck value from others. That's unattractive.
/r/seduction13/06/18 09:15 PM
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Slow down, Chief. Do your approaches. Watch RSD videos on YouTube and read some PUA books like The Game or Models. Take you're time. That time will also help you get over this girl.
/r/seduction13/06/18 09:13 PM
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Let me know how it goes. Hope to hear from you in a week!
/r/seduction13/06/18 08:56 PM
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Happy to help
/r/seduction13/06/18 08:55 PM
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Are you me? Haha This was my biggest struggle in learning to be successful with women. I hated myself and internalized that hate. In my head I thought: "Wow, you really are a creep." Or "God you're cringy and awkward" Sometimes I even believes I was just straight up a bad person. You have to let go of these thoughts. Because if you don't love yourself, others won't either. I highly recommend trying the mirror advice for a week straight and then reassess and see if it makes you feel better. But t…
/r/seduction13/06/18 08:50 PM
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Right. That's the PUA tactic. He blew up your BFs frame by making him jealous. This is a trap to make your boyfriend: Behave like a beta Nudge your BF to behave like an angry asshole Now your BF's behavior is still on him. But I bet this made you like your boyfriend a little less in the moment. Which means the strategy was successful. PM me and I can explain in more detail.
/r/seduction13/06/18 08:45 PM
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You da man. Keep it up.
/r/seduction13/06/18 08:27 PM
2

Get someone to take pictures of you during Golden Hour on a nice sunny day. Done.
/r/seduction13/06/18 08:25 PM
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He was trying to take you home. Read the subtext. He disqualified himself, a classic PUA tactic. And tried to make your BF get drunk and look like an asshole. Sounds like he may have succeeded in that second part. Not all guys get mad. But most will without realizing that's the trap.
/r/seduction13/06/18 08:17 PM
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I agree partially with your definition of good eye contact. But disagree with your definition of staring. It seems your focus in your response is oddly on facial expressions and not eye contact.
/r/seduction13/06/18 08:14 PM
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The other replies in here are either wrong or don't answer your question. The true answer is that they are one in the same. What you should be asking, however, is how do you maintain eye contact without making the subject uncomfortable? There are two key answers to that question. When they move to break eye contact (for example during a conversation) so should you. Continuing to try to force eye contact will make them feel uncomfortable. When they return to making eye contact, so should you. Thu…
/r/seduction13/06/18 08:06 PM
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This guy has boned up on PUA stuff. And ya, you can find a lot of this stuff for free on the internet.
/r/seduction13/06/18 07:56 PM
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The main take away is to make eye contact and hold it until the other person looks away. Practice this on everyone you see including men. It's a fairly long PDF iirc so there is definitely more in it than just that.
/r/seduction13/06/18 05:19 PM
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I don't have a link. It's on my offline hard drive. You can try searching for it by name but it's near impossible to find iirc
/r/seduction13/06/18 05:16 PM
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Stick with it and you'll lose your virginity. In terms of access to cool stuff like the observatory I can only suggest that you keep your eyes and ears open for unique opportunities. The reason I got access was that the university was open to giving students access if they attended a single training on how it worked. I was the only one who showed up. Great opportunities abound in this world. Most people pass them up.
/r/seduction13/06/18 04:50 PM
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Yes I can. It's called "Jean Joe's guide to perfect eye contact"
/r/seduction13/06/18 04:44 PM
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To my knowledge you can't find it anywhere anymore, which is why I downloaded a copy. I actually have a lot of requests right now to reupload it but haven't gotten around to it. It's annoying because it always gets taken down. Edit: but the PDF is called "Jean Joe's guide to perfect eye contact"
/r/seduction13/06/18 03:46 PM
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Yeah my friend did that once while in the shower at another friends condo. He was in the shower too with the curtain open so it flooded the floor causing water damage to the apartment below. We're no longer welcome to stay there. true story.
/r/seduction13/06/18 03:44 PM
1

See my response below.
/r/seduction13/06/18 02:45 PM
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Yup I am who you are looking for. Sophomore year in college I was a virgin (though I could be decently social and funny I will admit) and I struggled greatly trying to get women interested in me. Quite literally I discovered seduction by accident. I was using the random subreddit button and came across r/seduction. I didn't know it when I stumbled here but this subreddit would change my life. I thought r/seduction looked interesting so I stopped hitting random and read through some of the top po…
/r/seduction13/06/18 02:37 PM
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It is a common "inner game" technique to assume attraction. It's an effective technique and I recommend it in this case. The one caveat is that if the girl demonstrates she is not interested, then back the fuck off and move on.
/r/seduction13/06/18 01:33 AM
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Admittedly I heard it recently and thought it was a common expression. It is certainly understandable to use in most contexts though. I don't actually drive because Uber is so cost effective comparatively.
/r/seduction13/06/18 01:31 AM
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To be sure. I was just ranting about society writ large.
/r/seduction12/06/18 10:12 PM
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Yup all these things. It's frustrating that this is all true, yet at the same time there is huge pushback against masculinity. To women: pick a goddamn lane.
/r/seduction12/06/18 05:40 PM
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It's about the narrative. Not the tricks.
/r/seduction11/06/18 11:54 AM
1

Perfect
/r/seduction31/05/18 06:17 PM
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Like almost every skill, it can be used in a number of different contexts. Want to crush sales? Learn seduction. Want to distinguish yourself from the typical computer nerd? Learn seduction. Want to go into management and gain leadership opportunities? Learn seduction.
/r/seduction30/05/18 01:46 PM
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Ahhh looks like the domain owner wants you to pay for it now. I can host a copy somewhere, but I won't be able to upload until tomorrow evening.
/r/seduction29/05/18 07:07 PM
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Hi /u/delon123 Check out my starter guide here: How to Learn Pick-Up from the Internet - Lesson #1 (response to blackhatseduction's post) http://reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/102wst/how_to_learn_pickup_from_the_internet_lesson_1/ I'm also happy to do free over the phone consulting/training. If you're in NYC or Boston I can help in person.
/r/seduction29/05/18 04:55 PM
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Yes, I made this well received post years ago: How to Learn Pick-Up from the Internet - Lesson #1 (response to blackhatseduction's post) http://reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/102wst/how_to_learn_pickup_from_the_internet_lesson_1/ At the end of the post you will find links to the definitive guides on eye contact and kino escalation. The eye contact guide change my life.
/r/seduction29/05/18 04:17 PM
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Kino escalation is a method in seduction that involves touching and progressively touching erogenous zones more overtly over time. You need to learn it if you want to do pick up. It's your bread and butter.
/r/seduction29/05/18 04:06 AM
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Two things OP can do to better express intent non-verbally is strong eye contact and kino escalation.
/r/seduction29/05/18 01:04 AM
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I like this one
/r/seduction25/05/18 07:20 PM
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But people ARE here to learn. Typically I've found once I learned this stuff I stopped coming because I was busy cumming. So I bet a majority of sedditors are newbies.
/r/seduction25/05/18 04:37 PM
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Start here. Let me know if it's helpful. It's an old post so some of the links to the really phenomenal guides might be broken. Let me know if they are and I can fix them. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/102wst/how_to_learn_pickup_from_the_internet_lesson_1/
/r/seduction25/05/18 01:14 PM
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This is not the right question to ask. You could theoretically do this forever and never improve. You're practicing, so the question you should be asking yourself is this: "Am I practicing the correct things? " Here's what you should be consciously practicing (in order from most important to least) Eye contact Conversation threading Escalation Closing Let me know if you need guides on the four above and I can pm you some (though it might take me a minute to find) . And as others have said, as yo…
/r/seduction25/05/18 06:01 AM
2

It's Neil Straus's fault.
/r/seduction09/05/18 08:53 PM
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Your problem is that the people you're approaching can tell you want something from them and they can tell a mile away. Right now your mindset is "what can I do to make myself less lonely?" and instead it should be "what can I do to create a really fun and great time for my schoolmates?" it's the difference between wanting to take vs wanting to give. The latter is alpha and the former is beta, and it is very plain to see. Like I said they see you coming from a mile away to try and get something …
/r/seduction08/05/18 09:56 AM
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I don't think that's the situation here and you're making the incorrect assumption. It really depends on context, but I read her request for a drink as, "hey I'd like to talk to you more." And evidenced by the fact that she ended up buying the drinks.
/r/seduction30/04/18 04:59 PM
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I don't think that's the case. She asked for a drink (a common move), that's it. Instead she even bought drinks. Sounds like a woman I'd like to meet. But really too little information to pass judgement more than that.
/r/seduction30/04/18 04:19 PM
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With what kind of chick? There isn't enough info here to assess what kind of chick she is.
/r/seduction30/04/18 02:57 PM
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Yup, and it is the best piece of advice that people always forget.
/r/seduction18/04/18 09:45 PM
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Be careful with this advice. I wouldn't advocate paying money or service time for friends. The initiation concept is spot on, though.
/r/seduction27/03/18 01:00 PM
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I have a bunch. I'll try to remember to reply here when I get home
/r/seduction20/11/14 10:42 PM
2

Nice one
/r/seduction18/11/14 05:44 PM
1

Good one
/r/seduction14/11/14 02:15 PM
0

Girls like a well dressed guy. But they like a well dressed guy who makes it look effortless even more. Try this: "you think so? I usually don't even care how I look." Said nonchalantly
/r/seduction14/11/14 02:14 PM
1

What city? I'm sure there are plenty of sedditors who would be your friend
/r/seduction14/11/14 02:08 PM
1

Sup
/r/seduction13/11/14 02:43 PM
1

Ah I see. Well then going a few steps back, I'd say you need to work on isolating her and going in for the kiss. In any case my whole point is that having a boner is actually awesome and it should make you feel awesome.
/r/seduction12/11/14 03:44 PM
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Step 1. Engage in heavy petting Step 2. While making out grab her hand Step 3. Place hand on your chest. Step 4. Slide hand gradually downward (over 30 to 60 seconds) Step 5. Her hand is now on your dick. She will take care of the rest The gradual slide down gives her plenty of time to react (trust me she knows what you are doing). If she let's you continue you are golden. Source: I do this literally every chance I get.
/r/seduction12/11/14 02:24 PM
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This usually happens after you have gotten their number as obviously you need a higher level of comfort before this works She doesn't touch your dick... Just your pants. Huge difference.
/r/seduction12/11/14 02:19 PM
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It's alright, but I hope it helps you dude. Honestly if you are at that point it almost doesn't matter what you do.
/r/seduction11/11/14 11:11 PM
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If a girl is reciprocating kino, just embrace the fact that you have a boner. It is likely that your sexual energy is getting transferred to the girl. My favorite move (provided the girl is clearly into it) is to take her hand and slide it down my chest on to my dick. She can usually feel it through my pants and things escalate quickly from there.
/r/seduction11/11/14 03:13 PM
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I agree completely. This is not the example of a perfect pickup, but it is an example of qualification method that I was trying to demonstrate.
/r/seduction18/05/14 10:13 PM
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Hey AntixD, all the lessons are now linked at the top!
/r/seduction18/05/14 02:32 PM
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That is a common problem that I struggle with as well at times. My best advice is to take on the six characteristics of an alpha male. Once people start reacting to you as an alpha male, you will internalize it. This will put you in state. The simplest way however is to make plans and lead the people you are with.
/r/seduction16/05/14 08:21 PM
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Ah I think I see your problem then. If something is alpha, then you shy away from it. You should be doing that regardless. You need to act alpha to get in state, not be in state to act alpha
/r/seduction16/05/14 03:55 PM
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Ah I think I see your problem then. If something is alpha, then you shy away from it. You should be doing that regardless. You need to act alpha to get in state, not be in state to act alpha
/r/seduction16/05/14 03:55 PM
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Try to not ask questions. Make statements that provoke responses. You can do this simply by looking at your target and saying something like, 'the most important sign of a great party is meeting cool new people.' don't use this as an opener, just a way to spark a conversation after you have opened.
/r/seduction16/05/14 03:35 PM
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Hey kid. I was 16 when I had my first kiss. But it was a number of years until that turned into losing my virginity. Now I'm rolling in women. Don't get down on yourself for not having kissed a girl yet. It's normal. In short this subreddit will help you figure out how to interact with girls. And get that kiss. Read through the side bar. Also take a look at my submissions which are all guides on how to process this information. Good luck
/r/seduction16/05/14 03:22 PM
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That's almost a fair point, but your comment isn't very 'inspiring' for an ENFP! Honestly self-love is the best cure for depression. And it can also be extremely useful when trying to meet women.
/r/seduction14/05/14 11:09 PM
1

This is some amazing stuff.
/r/seduction14/05/14 12:41 PM
1

Qualify using a yes-ladder!
/r/seduction14/05/14 12:18 PM
1

Yeah - you see him act crazy in front of crowds, and forget what a guru he is.
/r/seduction14/05/14 01:50 AM
1

Are you returning to our little community? :D
/r/seduction13/05/14 01:09 PM
1

This video is really amazing for helping you get back into successful interactions with women. Trust me, I've been through the same thing. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7fMDrYBsYbo&feature=endscreen&NR=1&noredirect=1
/r/seduction14/04/14 11:55 PM
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So your opinion is this girl is insane because she can't take a compliment? No offense, but anyone else think that's a bit of a stretch?
/r/seduction17/11/13 03:32 PM
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Boom. Not even a problem. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xsqA-9CiJS4
/r/seduction22/05/13 10:48 PM
1

Again they're both working for me. You can give me your email address and I'll send it to you.
/r/seduction18/10/12 03:54 PM
2

I've seen so many "PUA 101" posts since I made mine. Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. OH YOU! This is a good post, by the way
/r/seduction02/10/12 12:48 AM
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Yeah I really love that video. The best part is you can almost always apply it to what you are doing. Also, I just released Lesson #2. Please read it and give it an upvote if you like it. Your Friend, Mr. Right
/r/seduction28/09/12 12:09 AM
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Wisdom
/r/seduction24/09/12 02:12 PM
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I just tried it and it works for me. PM me your email address and I can send it to you.
/r/seduction20/09/12 04:11 PM
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The most authoritative source on both of those is the mystery method. I recommend you purchase the ebook online. It is absolutely worth the price.
/r/seduction20/09/12 04:27 AM
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Yeah, that eye contact guide was one of the first encounters I had with the pick-up community. That's where it all started for me. Now, my eye-contact is such a powerful tool for me that literally 30 minutes ago I made eye-contact with a girl across the room (5 yards) and held it while she walked across the room. By the end she was smiling and biting her lip. It's on like Donkey Kong.
/r/seduction19/09/12 02:51 PM
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I disagree. The avrage amount of time it takes to go from meeting a woman to taking her to bed is about 7 hours. That is to say, 7 hours spent with her and those 7 hours could accumulate over a week or two. In the time you definitely have a chance to practice all of those things, especially Kino and Eye-contact, which are arguable the most important by far.
/r/seduction19/09/12 11:33 AM
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Give it about a week and a half. So like the 29th-ish.
/r/seduction19/09/12 11:31 AM
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I don't think it is ready for the sidebar yet. As an academic, I fully believe in peer-reviewed publishing. When I first posted this, it was definitely missing some components that other PUAs, like Im_A_rapist pointed out need to be added. If /r/seduction is going to give it a sidebar endorsement, then I want it to be as good as it can be. First I need people to test out the readings/assignments I've given.
/r/seduction19/09/12 11:30 AM
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That was my thought to begin with. As long as one person found it to be exactly what they needed, then I thought it would be helpful.
/r/seduction19/09/12 11:27 AM
1

A very good point. I think I will try to address this in the next lesson.
/r/seduction19/09/12 11:26 AM
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It really means a lot to me that you commented on this. Over the course of the last year I have read a lot of you comments and posts and find them to be some of the most insightful and informative in the whole subreddit. I also know that you know what you're talking about. But if you would humor, I would like to discuss some of the points you brought up in your comments. The reason I put posture / body language in the inner game section is because of its reinforcing nature. It literally boosts y…
/r/seduction18/09/12 08:10 PM
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Yes I think you are absolutely correct that the side-bar already has a lot of this content. But what it doesn't do is put it into a context that is easily accessibly for learning. It's like saying that because we have a library that we no longer need teachers and schools. What my primary goal is to organize a lot of this information in a logical way that will reveal how everything in seduction works together. Additionally, many beginners need step-by-step assistance when dealing with this stuff …
/r/seduction18/09/12 07:57 PM
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Hey there, I just made a post that I hope addresses some of your concerns. Please give it a read and give me your opinion. Thank you, Longtime sedditor
/r/seduction18/09/12 02:48 PM
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When you say there is a "recent study," it is generally a good idea to provide a source. This ensures accuracy and prevents the spread of inaccuracies. I don't really care what your goal is, but making up lies results in a downvote.
/r/seduction18/09/12 05:10 AM
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I'll replace my downvote with an upvote when you provide a source.
/r/seduction18/09/12 12:41 AM
1

*you're
/r/seduction14/09/12 01:51 PM
1

Yes, I find for some reason that reinforcing the idea that I am loved is just really helpful for me.
/r/seduction10/09/12 02:08 PM
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Go to the mirror right now. Look yourself in the eyes and say, "I love you." It might feel silly, difficult or hard. BUT GODDAMMIT THIS IS THE BEST FIRST STEP EVER. Do it everyday for a week. Soon you will start looking forward to it. The next step is to start looking through the articles and advice on here. If you want personalized pointers and extra reading materials then PM because i have a ton and I really feel like helping someone. I'm the same age as you and have gone through some depressi…
/r/seduction10/09/12 02:48 AM
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Cool post. Quick question though, does NLP work for you?
/r/seduction03/09/12 01:26 PM
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Forgetitok seems to have immediately stumbled upon the greatest asset to pick up. Inner Game. She literally came into the community because it sounded like fun. She gives no fucks like a champ and acts confidently. That is really the only lesson to take from this. Interesting story, if it is true. (Sorry to be cynical but I've been on the internet too long to believe everything I read on here.)
/r/seduction22/08/12 01:49 AM
1

Yes I saw your post. Unfortunately any post referencing r/seduction seemed to be downvoted into oblivion.
/r/seduction27/07/12 02:38 PM
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Yes I definitely agree. I have plenty of girl friends. I'm just saying that that piece of advice alone is not very good. You do have to learn how to treat women as potential mates and not just as friends.
/r/seduction27/07/12 02:37 PM
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Definitely important and good to know. Your posture conveys a lot about you. Additionally it actually makes you more alpha through physiological means. There is actually research which proves the humongous affect posture has on us. Here is an excellent presentation on it.
/r/seduction27/07/12 02:26 PM
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It's good up until a point. Perhaps a good place to start, but getting out of the "friendzone" can be really, really difficult. Especially if you end up getting oneitis for your friend, which is a very high risk.
/r/seduction27/07/12 02:20 PM
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If I come back from this journey with even a shred of approach anxiety even around the hottest of women, I will be disappointed. You will always have approach anxiety. It is hard wired into your brain. It is a fear that your primitive mind has. But the reality is that you have nothing to fear but fear itself. AA isn't something you have to build up to overcome, you just need to realize that it is a meaningless, vestigial thought. Aside from that. Here are my three commands: When on the dance flo…
/r/seduction18/07/12 03:27 PM
2

Came here to post this. TD has really rubbed off on Julian.
/r/seduction17/07/12 06:26 PM
2

With all the mountains, shrines and ahem the famous Mt. Fuji - there is definitely a backpacker scene in Japan. The language was definitely a struggle but I got the hang of it thanks to some formal training. I'm quite good at it now and it is one of my favorite hobbies. I'm glad you agree with my thoughts. For some reason, half way through my post I decided to get really poetic lol
/r/seduction17/07/12 06:13 PM
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Alright here's the logic laid out in a formal logical format. Good looking and confident men attract women Men with their "shit together" are well-groomed, responsible and happy Well-groomed, responsible and happy people are good looking and confident .: Men with their "shit together" attract women. That being said, I would agree with your sentiment to a degree. I don't think anyone here is saying that Inner-game in a vacuum will get you women, but it definitely is a key step. You definitely nee…
/r/seduction17/07/12 06:07 PM
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I did an 8-month solo trip to Japan when I was 20. Let me just echo the top comment in saying that it was incredibly difficult in every imaginable way. Primarily emotionally because when you are in a very foreign country on your own, you have no one to back you up when you need it. Solitude can be crushing. You start to feel the heat and pressure build up from all your mistakes as they pound down on you from the outside. On the inside, mental anguish and torment tears you up and disintegrates yo…
/r/seduction17/07/12 05:50 PM
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I like your writing style. You're going somewhere, kid.
/r/seduction21/06/12 07:03 PM
1

Thanks, CurveBall. I really like seeing you post by the way. Where can I find these materials?
/r/seduction21/06/12 05:50 PM
1

Any tips on how to do this?
/r/seduction21/06/12 04:17 PM
2

What's a video store?
/r/seduction22/05/12 11:49 AM
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I hope you will make it an E-book with a seddit discount ;)
/r/seduction09/05/12 03:46 PM
3

My number 1 piece of advice is to just go out and do it. Despite what many people in the community might have you believe, there is no one way of doing this. There is no special technique that if you know it, you will just get girls flocking to you. Just read what you can and put it into practice. Really the best policy here is trial and error. However here are a few quick tips. Eye contact is the most important tool in your toolbox. MASTER IT! Just try to thread the conversation. Listen to what…
/r/seduction04/05/12 02:46 PM
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Seriously! When will people realize that there are TWO important platforms.
/r/seduction04/05/12 03:10 AM
2

I would take this more as a guide for practicing good EC. The reason you try to do eye contact before hand is because it helps you determine if a woman is interested. If you are doing a street approach, chances are that the woman isn't looking for some stud to just walk up to them on the street. You should still surprise them anyway if you like, just remember to hold proper EC when you engage them.
/r/seduction03/05/12 02:06 PM
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Listen to the wise TofuTofu, you sillymallard.
/r/seduction03/05/12 03:25 AM
1

Thank you! I wish I could give you more than one upvote!
/r/seduction02/05/12 08:23 PM
1

They do have articles up on there from April 2012, though.
/r/seduction02/05/12 11:47 AM
1

I don't often use negs, but it is something nice to have in the toolbox.
/r/seduction01/05/12 09:23 PM
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Keep in mind this is constructive criticism, but this is very clearly a strong AFC characteristic and you must get rid of it. Your focus should be on having fun and amusing yourself. Often times when you can read into situations, like when you see a woman using sex to manipulate people, you can actually mess everything up for her by changing the dynamic. For me, when people try to manipulate me I have no problem manipulating them back. My response whould have been something like this. Me: oh! Yo…
/r/seduction01/05/12 12:54 PM
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