Hello Seddit,

So a really interesting post was made by blackhatseduction as to the quality of content here on r/seduction. I agree with everything he said. This subreddit has become too focused on Inner Game, and while Inner Game is very important, Outer Game is equally important. But as circumstance would have it, I have been organizing a training regimen for some other sedditors who really needed help. I had already written most of this when I saw his post and realized it addressed most of blackhat’s concerns.

My goal here is to organize the chaos of pick-up related content around the internet and turn it into a format from which people can derive lessons and learn pick-up step by step. As you read on you’ll find that I have broken down pick-up into different categories and sub-categories. Each subcategory will have related content pulled from third party sources to study. Let’s work together to make sense out of this chaos. Please let me know what you guys think in the comments section. If this is popular I will make regular updates with more recommendations/assignments to read up on.

So without further ado, please enjoy my first lesson: The Components of Pick-Up

Mr. Right’s Seduction 101 - The Components of Pick-up

In this lesson you’ll find that I have broken apart the venusian arts for you in a way that is easily understandable. I’ve even prioritized certain components, such as Kino and Eye-contact so that you know which parts should be worked on first. As you work through my lessons, I will include sources on gradually more “advanced” techniques, such as Qualification or Frame Control.

The reason I’m giving you all the sources, readings and advice is because it actually works. Let me tell you that this stuff has changed my life. This past weekend I hooked up with four girls in the last three days. If you apply yourself and believe in the change, then this will really work for you!

So let me breakdown the art of Pick-up for you. The key components to effective pick-up can essentially be broken down into two categories: “Inner Game” and “Outer Game.”

Inner Game is exactly as the name implies, it relates to your own mental self-perception and confidence. Without positive self-perception and confidence, the rest of this simply doesn’t work. This is the part that most students of the venusian arts have trouble with because when they start game, they often fail at first and it shatters their confidence. Then they give it up. This will not happen to you if you are truly willing to make a change within yourself and work hard to realize your potential. Let me reiterate, THIS IS NOT EASY OR SOME MAGIC PILL. You have to work-out, change the way you think and even change your lifestyle.

Components of Inner Game

  1. Self-Confidence
  2. Body Language / Posture
  3. Outcome Independence
  4. Frame Control

Then there is outer game. This deals with the techniques you employ during interactions with women. It takes a while to master all of these, but they are just as important as inner game (despite what others on r/seduction might say). Several PU masters have developed these techniques because they greatly increase your chances with women. They put you in control of these situations and allow you to make women putty in your hand.

Components of Outer Game

  1. Kino Escalation (INCREDIBLY IMPORTANT)
  2. Eye Contact (INCREDIBLY IMPORTANT)
  3. Opening
  4. Qualification
  5. Frame Transference
  6. Compliance Tests
  7. Neuro-linguistic programing (Skeptical as to whether or not this works)
  8. Last Minute Resistance Techniques
  9. Bouncing
  10. Demonstration of Higher Value
  11. Logistics
  12. Conversational Threading
  13. Voice Control / Tonality
  14. Social Circle Control

Got all that? Good! As you work with me, we will be going through all this vital information. I have assigned you some readings and videos to watch. I look forward to hearing back from you and I hope you keep me up to date on your progress.

Watch

Video on confident body-language

Read

Kino Escalation

Eye-Contact - Broken, working on fixing.

EDIT: Fixed some broken links from age