4 Conversations to have a on a first date that build massive rapport

humanwire · 2017-04-12T01:03:34+00:00

What is she passionate about?
What does she want out of life? What do you want out of life?
Who or what inspires her? Who or what inspires you?
What is she scared of?

Connorrrrrrrrr · 2017-04-11T18:21:30+00:00

Someone let me know how this is

bsaliba · 2017-04-12T01:40:57+00:00

Dude. Workshop for hitting on girls..... the only way you are gonna be comfortable is if you constantly approach and talk to women, not the idiots in front of a powerpoint. It can only be learned if you do it yourself

jamesy69 · 2017-04-12T02:07:28+00:00

This video is good, maybe not for the reason in the title, but it is worth the five minutes. The questions he wants you to ask are nothing new but the explanations provide really good examples of using stories for comfort building, as opposed to the typical DHV story telling tips that get posted about everywhere

BobBobCan · 2017-04-12T12:52:32+00:00

I find all these zillions of workshops and how-to-do-it-manuals annoying because in the end it confuses people even more. As if you need knowledge about how to strike up a conversation before striking up a conversation. Talking with other people is not quantum physics; You don't need years of prerequisite studies to grasp it. You need to be able to talk! And you need other people. Can you talk? Do you know anyone language? If yes, you have all that´s needed to learn the skill - talking with other people!

As demonstrated by countless other people, you don't even need a plan to become somewhat proficient. You just go out there and.... talk! You´d probably fail many times, but over time you become better.

And if you want to become a guru, then you go about it as if it where like any other skill you want to become an expert in. You have clear, specific goals of what you want to achieve and you do something you can do right now and gradually increase the dose. Example: Hold a fluid conversation for one minute? Oh you failed. That's fine. Do it for 20 seconds instead. Still not working. You realized that the problem is actually you not being able to introduce yourself. So you do that a few times until it you can move to the next level. And so on.

NofapandalsoNosurf · 2017-04-12T09:01:19+00:00

On male fashion advice they say black dress shoes are too formal for jeans so I thought that was interesting

sh0nuff · 2017-04-12T12:51:12+00:00

The Ford Technique is a much more thorough way to master small talk, with dates or strangers alike. And since the acronym stands for areas of conversation, it's a much more flexible solution.

BrownTown90 · 2017-04-12T14:51:03+00:00

Title	4 Conversations to have a on a first date that build massive rapport
Author	djdante
Upvotes	273
Comments	19
Date	April 11, 2017 2:52 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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