Feedback on a date idea, please?

mileshigh_23 · 2012-03-11T07:53:52+00:00

Everyone has their own style, and as we all know, this is an art. So here's my take on text game and turning a number into a date:

Avoid questions. Girls are subjected to boring questions from guys all.the.time. Girls are evolutionarily wired to follow a strong leader, so lead.
Try this: "You.Me.Dancing class tomorrow night. 7:30pm." / "Txt 1 for YESSS! or 2 for ABSOLUTELY!!"
or this: "I'm going to a barn dance class tomorrow night @ 7:30pm. I know, I know. I'm kind of a badass :P Come with me and have fun"

While I'm at it, my take on dates is do what YOU find fun. Generally, she'll have fun if you're having fun. I personally hate boring coffee dates. It feels so awkward sitting across from some girl I don't know getting to know eachother, so when I'm with a new girl, we're always on the move bouncing from a cafe to a shop, and then a walk down by the creek, then a walk through the town center, etc...

Jdogg420 · 2012-03-11T07:46:20+00:00

Not a pro here (it sounds like we both have the same lvl of experience), but I'll give you what I think.

Sounds like you know the right answer about the date idea: it's a great idea. Shows you're adventurous and like you said plenty of kino opps. Bingo.

The clincher here is the late notice. Sounds like you have the right idea. I'd frame the invitation in a much more fun way to try and get her to go. This is how I'd do it:

I'd call her up when she's not busy and start with some small chit-chat. Once she's into the conversation, I'd bring this up:

Me: "Do you consider yourself adventurous?"

Her: "Yeah"

Me: "Spontaneous?"

Her: "Yeah"

Me: "We'll see about that :). Folk Dancing tonight. [time/place/info]. It'll be great, you should come with."

edit: formatting and added stuff

If she says something like "I'm not a good dancer" neg her about how she just said she's adventurous but she doesn't want to leave her comfort zone. Make sure you also mention that you're not a good dancer either (even if you really are) so she won't feel intimidated. If she said something about scheduling conflicts then there's a high probability that she's not BSing you. Try again another time.

beholderseye · 2012-03-11T17:33:14+00:00

One of the first date ideas my guy came up with was fun and unusual like this. His ability to be goofy and spontaneous totally worked. Don't overthink the approach: your suggestion speaks for itself (adventurous, fun, outside the norm). If she's a cool girl, she'll go for it.

rmbarnes · 2012-03-11T18:30:33+00:00

It seems fine but there's nothing wrong with going to a bar for a drink (although you have to be 21 for some reason if you're in the USA).

Title	Feedback on a date idea, please?
Author	pirrrip
Upvotes	6
Comments	6
Date	March 11, 2012 7:33 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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