Field report

Prestigious_Water336 · 2025-12-06T22:09:34+00:00

You're going out too late

You need to go out early around 9:30-10 so you have time to approach

Comment about the situation,place, or something happening then introduce yourself.

Make some more small talk then start flirting and getting closer to her.

When here's a gap or break in the conversation go for the kiss and then go for the pull

Say "What are you doing after this?"

then offer to show her your house/apartment

hzst · 2025-12-07T23:19:55+00:00

stick with it

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2025-12-10T23:23:21+00:00

First off, start early. Not sure what happened and 12:45 seems insanely late to me. Not sure what city you are in but i live in a country where bars typically clsoe at 2 am. My night usually starts at someone's palce pre-gaming around 8. Leave the door at 9 to try and get into bars at 9:30.

As for your interactions, it could be that for most people their nights were kind of already over and set. At one people are looking to sober up to go home. Still having fun but not as open to meeting new people.

As for the rest, it's all about practice. I think you might be too in your head tbh. Honestly sometimes you just gotta grab a girl and dance at a club. respectfulkly of course. And a lot of it is reading body language. If im at a bar, and approach a girl i just complement something random. Some girls have unique parts of their outfits that nobody else has. So if they are wearing boots, ill be like "omg those boots are nice whered you get em?". Some girls will give you bland responses, others will like that you noticed and gave them interest.

For me i had to learn how to first treat girls like bros and second hype them up. Treating them like bros means knowing how to shoot the shit with them like a bro. Hype them up like a bro. Girls go to bars to have a good time so you gotta meet them there. When you go up to them, they already have their walls up because they get hit on so much and they know why us men are there for. The only way they put their walls down is when they see a guy who is generally there to have a good time for himself. I had a friend who pulled by talking to guys at vbars for hours then he'd hype the guys up, when the music got good would get a group of random girls to join in and now everybody was dancing. He didnt care to get laid that night, he onlyc ared about having a good time.

Dana_myte · 2025-12-11T22:54:40+00:00

Sounds like you're doing things right just missing the "fun factor".

You're going off the script learned here and while it's good starter, things flow better when you're lose and having fun already (basically self-amusement and don't take yourself or anything too serious).

In these two interactions I would say great start as openers but sounds a bit depressing like you didn't contribute anything to elevate their state.

Perhaphs next time do something funny dance your way in to get a laugh, throw an imaginary fishing rod to reel them in, that flatters them, or same open as yours but ask about their life see what sticks or what lights them up often times ask if they are a cat or dog person see how they response then ask for specifics name, breed, etc that'll get them lol then go off that and keep pumping those good feels.

This also comes from internally though if you're feeling fun and flowy they will feel it, you showed up late imo and wanted to chit chat and ask boring questions peak time for a bar is between 12-1:30 everyone is already hammered the chit chat starts around 10-11:30.

There's a reason tony robins jumps on a trampoline backstage before coming out to talk (pumping blood/state endorphins into body)

Title	Field report
Author	Hungry_Energy_8353
Upvotes	8
Comments	4
Date	December 6, 2025 9:49 PM UTC (7 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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