First date and she asked me out

Dandys3107 · 2024-01-30T10:12:40+00:00

Good for you. Still, when girl dared to make the first move, you should kinda "reward" it by taking your own fair chunk of initiative, leading escalation and showing your masculine side. Otherwise, she may think you don't really fancy her that much or don't have skill or courage to get sexual.

letsgetwizzyy · 2024-01-30T18:03:38+00:00

If a woman approaches you, that means she is very physically attracted to you and most likely wanted to hook up. This is further suggested by the fact that she took you out and paid for it. She was hoping you would get the hint and escalate and hook up with her.

If there is a next time, you need to escalate and get physical because that is what she wants. If you don't she's going to think you are a pussy or not attracted to her (most likely the former)

Also, when women have the confidence to approach men, it either means they are your physical type, they are extremely attracted to you, or that they are whores. Regardless, don't become devestated if this doesn't work out because most likely she has multiple other dudes she's talking to and even other ones that she approached.

Ask her to hang out at your place and makeup and excuse. Have balls and do it, she wants to hook up.

This article discusses how to escalate with a woman to get her ready for making out / kissing and eventually sex: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-physically-escalate-with-women?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web

Happy_Dance_Bilbo · 2024-01-30T04:15:38+00:00

I think it's important to understand that a woman with the confidence to hit on you, has usually had the confidence to hit on other men, so you might not be the only guy on her roster.

still , it's nice to get some attention from the ladies and I hope this does translate into more confidence in yourself.

Best of luck going forward into the future.

Gxl4 · 2024-01-30T07:43:09+00:00

Escalate. Its rare that they ask you out, there is deffo some spark from her side. Do the escalation or find yourself in the friendzone pretty quickly.

zertsetzung · 2024-01-30T04:13:11+00:00

Thats great.

Hope you slip it inside of her pretty quickly because women who are forward like that do not like to wait for it.

Dont care how much she pretends not to like sex. Thats just a defense to avoid being slut shamed.

Title	First date and she asked me out
Author	DiscombobulatedAsk66
Upvotes	20
Comments	7
Date	January 30, 2024 3:18 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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