Throw away here. I've been reading r/seddit for over a year now, and I've made huge life changes as a result. I'm able to get dates with girls I find attractive, however, when we actually go out on the date, I feel like the conversations we have are meaningless. It feels like we're interrogating each other, the conversations are bland, and I feel like the girls aren't having fun. I almost rarely get second dates. Can you gents give me any advice or refer me to some books to read? Thanks everyone! (P.S. I have started reading Dale Carnegie's "How to Win Friends and Influence People")