On Saturday, I got my first lay since starting to improve myself. Now, however, I face some questions.
The Story
It was my friends birthday. Pub crawl in London. We all go out and start drinking and I am getting serious IOIs from my friend's sister who tells me she saw photos of me from a holiday I went on and I looked cute. I tease her a bit, push & pull and then kiss her in a corner of one of the first bars.
This kind of thing continues along the pub crawl until eventually my friend (her brother) spots us. He asks me for a word (at which point I'm expecting to get punched) but he tells me that he knows I'm a nice guy and that he doesn't mind so long as his sister is happy. Long story short - her and I end up split up from the rest of the group at the end of the night and have a crazy journey back to her parents place (too long and irrelevant for here). We end up sleeping together in her room at her parents' place while her brother and the rest of the party sleeps in the living room. The sex is great and keeps us up most of the night. We spend hours kissing and cuddling afterwards.
In the morning, over slightly awkward breakfast, we remain pretty close (she keeps stroking me and holding my hand when she can). When my friend and I leave, there are people including her family around and so the most I can give her is a hug goodbye. I go home to Wales with a spring in my step.
The Conundrum
Cut to three days later. We are still messaging fairly regularly. Stuff I have noticed:
a) we reminisce about our weird journey home and night together (including sex and cuddling)
b) often, if I leave a conversation at an end, she will do something to re engage (ask me about myself or my background, tell me about her day etc.)
c) she mentioned that her parents noticed us getting "cosy" and that they asked if we were still talking (apparently im more polite, funnier and mature than the other guys she dates). Why is she telling me this?
d) she likes teasing and banter that comes to us fairly naturally in the course of our conversations.
e) she asked me to add her on snapchat and we've exchanged a few messages on there.
So basically, we are in good contact. Now, the problem - until the end of this year she is doing a masters in a city three hours away from where I live.
I really like this girl (and her family approve haha). She's sexy and I've found over the past few days that I really love her personallity. The problem is that if we are going to see each other again then realistically one of us is going to have to travel to the other.
My questions therefore:
1) I think I know the answer but here goes - is this just oneitis stemming from my first lay in a long while?
2) How could I broach the subject of meeting up again given that there's quite a distance between us?
Cheers
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