So this was new for me. I’ve never done a cold approach or at least not in situations liked coffees restaurants etc. But I don’t know, lately some things have been changing in my life and inside me and I just didn’t want to be an observer anymore of be the guy that just stares at her without ever doing anything about it. So I did it. I was in a restaurant with my family and I saw this girl with her two friends and for a lot of times we exchanged very quick gazes or I could feel her looking at me at the other table, etc. So that last time I found her looking at me when I was about to look at her I said alright fuck it I’m doing it. Just before we left I was honestly doubtful and a bit insecure but still did it. After my family left, I went to her table, approach her friends and her and said Hi. sorry if I’m interrupting you, and I usually don’t do this but I saw you and honestly I think you’re very pretty. I wanted to tell you. Do you have Instagram? And then she and her friends started to giggle. She was still eating (yeah not good timing but was my last chance) so I when she was ready she ask me “Instagram?” I said yes and she gave her IG and I finally sais good afternoon to her and her friends and that was it. Felt really nervous and strange because this was totally new for me but it was like an impulse from within.

Now what? I mean I know a lot of girls just give her numbers and IG because of social pressure and all that. So she could not respond anything and that’s it. Maybe I just want to know the experiences from other people that have done cold approach or similar and how you guys deal with rejection after putting yourself out there? Or how do you actually make it work?