First time posting, what do I do to be interesting to girls?

RandianHero · 2014-03-22T05:47:08+00:00

Do exciting things. Pick up skills. Travel, read, and experience as much as you can. You're still young, so you've got plenty of time to do all that. Your best years are ahead of you, and you've got a lot of them yet.

BigGeek43 · 2014-03-22T06:10:22+00:00

Join toastmasters.org and learn public speaking. It will give you confidence to talk about any subject with anyone and will help you in other ways. Other than that just approach and fail as many times as you can. You become interesting when you relax and lose all filters and just say what's on your mind. Watch "simple pickup".

rusty84 · 2014-03-22T07:24:47+00:00

it's always better to be interested than interesting.

RiverHorsez · 2014-03-22T14:32:13+00:00

Try starting generic conversations with zero intentions. A great conversation starter is to ask her about her weekend, and go from there.

This is just to get you comfortable with talking to girls, also remember 9/10 they are more insecure than you are

2014-03-22T14:45:46+00:00

This is an incredibly broad question. It's kind of like asking, "how do I martial arts?" Sorry man, but if we could answer this question in a single post in a way that you would actually internalize and be able to immediately implement, we wouldn't need /r/seduction.

Being interesting isn't something that you do. It's something that you are. If you don't know how to bring excitement, then your hobbies will seem boring and tryhard. If you are happy, friendly, and confident, then even the most boring hobbies (at least by society's standards) will seem exhilarating.

You need to learn how to just feel good. For no reason. Feel happy and good because you are who you are. That way, the people around you will feel good and want to be with you. They'll want to hang out with you and invite you to parties because you're fun, friendly, and enjoyable. If you can throw in a little healthy sexuality into the mix when you're talking to girls, then baby you got a stew goin'.

It's simple, but not easy. Learning to feel good is oftentimes a result of having good friends/family, exercising and eating correctly, having hobbies that YOU enjoy (not hobbies you do so other people think you're cool), and doing lots of approaches so you're not scared of women.

(Another way to feel good is to just be completely delusional, which is useful in some cases, but it's not good for the long-run)

In other words, time and effort.

Start exercising. Start eating correctly. Start approaching girls at the mall. Read books that you enjoy. If you like hiking, go hike more! If you have positive friends, hang out with them more (if they're negative, cynical people, then I really suggest making new friends). Do the things that YOU want out of life.

If you don't know what you want to do, then experiment. Maybe dancing seems sissy to you, but hell, you'll probably enjoy it once you actually give it an honest shot.

LIVE.

ThePUA_Baddie · 2014-03-22T20:53:57+00:00

First of all you shouldn't be doing things to appear interesting to girls. You should be doing things because you want to. You don't have to do interesting shit for girls to get them. In fact that mindset will be the biggest poison for you if you want to get girls. What you need to work on is not being awkward or clumsy around them and start giving less fucks. Once you do that you'll feel relaxed around girls

Slut1 · 2014-03-23T01:01:31+00:00

Alpha up! Smile, stand up straight learn to hold eye contact and forget about blocking out things since she might not think its funny, and as the other here have written its a really broad question, i´d say lurk some and read the side bar. Good luck!

SenorPuff · 2014-03-23T05:53:44+00:00

Do interesting things, have hobbies. You're probably in high school, so join the band, join two sports teams, join the academic competition team. Join clubs that do interesting things. Read poetry, good literature, and other books. Learn the social scene in your town, like what bands are playing, what the b-movie theater is playing. Join the local service organization. Have your hand in several groups of friends and be the guy they want to take out.

BlueIsStylinOnYou · 2014-03-24T16:06:45+00:00

You're 16? Start working out now. You'll thank me later. You'll reap a lot of benefits if you do this

aalewis____ · 2014-03-22T06:46:00+00:00

wear a fedora and talk about how intelligent you are

vitotglt · 2014-03-22T05:27:05+00:00

Be yourself, pretty generic answer, but just be you. If girls dont like the real you, they aint worth your time.

Title	First time posting, what do I do to be interesting to girls?
Author	elreloj
Upvotes	4
Comments	11
Date	March 22, 2014 5:23 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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