Flake on the date

Waldooo97 · 2021-09-17T16:41:08+00:00

They flake because a better option became available. If you have her interest, she will make the effort to see you.

slightdrippin · 2021-09-17T16:34:46+00:00

On the day of meeting ask her earlier if the deal still stands

ORIONFULL23 · 2021-09-17T18:24:24+00:00

She's not enough interest in seeing you, dont know how many times you've dated this girl, but it has to be a consequence, remove your attention toward her

Hmmoklolthisisfine · 2021-09-17T18:25:33+00:00

How much did you text her before the date? Maybe she got a neediness vibe from you and cancelled.

JeSpino1 · 2021-09-17T17:52:41+00:00

Women are also very indecisive and inconsistent. “Logic” need not apply so don’t stress yourself out making excuses for them. A lot of times they just no longer feel like going. They’re not the committed type because there’s little to no punishment , most guys would just try rescheduling

Agreable_Actuator84 · 2021-09-17T18:13:58+00:00

Maybe the best ROI of your time and energy would be to assume that a certain percentage of women will flake no matter what you do, and some percentage maybe you can convert if you improve your ability to communicate high value.

So given those odds, while you might Spend some time on growing your ability to demonstrate high value (lifting, dressing better, developing mental state control, increasing decisiveness, improving social skill, you would also spend some time strategizing what you would do if she flakes. So you should have a plan a, the date, and a plan b so if she flakes you would be still having fun or develop skills by like cold approaching women at the venue.

Anyway, I am just suggesting it’s a multi factorial problem and you also need to look at how to best handle the inevitable flake.

Good luck out there!

larryd86 · 2021-09-17T19:25:29+00:00

They flake cause they can

BounceThatShit · 2021-09-18T11:31:02+00:00

Girls from dating apps flake A LOT, girls you meet in real life are way less likely to flake. Thats my experience with it.

Title	Flake on the date
Author	Luxenburger
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	September 17, 2021 4:31 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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