This might a little off topic but I feel like a lot of guys here can probably relate so I wanted to get your opinions.

Like a lot of guys in this community, I've always had a pretty high sex drive. During most of my teens and early 20's, my primary outlet for this was lots of porn and masturbating, but once I started working out and dressing better, and especially when I got into the seduction community, things really took off for me.

I don't think my sex drive necessarily increased, but I finally had an outlet for it. For most of 2017, 2018, and the first half of 2019, I always had one or two FWBs, pulled plenty of one/ two night stands, got on the dating apps almost every day, masturbated several times a week, and saw the occasional escort. If you had asked me then, I probably would have said I'd like my sex drive to go down a little. It got to be distracting and I sometimes found myself unable to focus at work because I couldn't keep my mind off sex.

Anyways, the last half of 2019 was pretty challenging for me. I was laid off from my job over the summer and spent a couple months unemployed looking for my next move. I landed a great job in September but it required moving to a new city, and the fast-paced company culture took some getting used to.

My sex drive took a big hit after I was laid off and hasn't quite recovered. I've pulled a couple one night stands and I've been in a FWB relationship for a couple months, but my drive to go out and meet/ fuck new girls is nowhere close to what it used to be. I hardly get on the dating apps anymore and when I meet an attractive girl through friends or out at a bar, I'm no longer as interested in getting her into bed. On the plus side, I'm also no longer as interested in porn and escorts, so it's not all bad. But all in all, even though I might have wished for this at one point, I sort of miss my normal, horny self lol.

I also wonder if part of it is just natural aging/ maturing. I just turned 29 and over the last few years I've had sex with more girls and hotter girls than I ever imagined would be possible. Seeing one more girl naked doesn't seem like such a thrill when I've already done it many, many times before.

I'm wondering if anyone here has experienced something similar when they've gone through a particularly busy/ stressful period in life. I've thought about seeing a doctor or therapist, but I'm wondering how "normal" this is. To be clear, I do still have a sex drive and I'm still able to perform when I'm with a girl. It's just not the crazy, almost 24/7 sex drive that first got me off the porn sites and into seduction in the first place.