What language to speak on upcoming date?

Stellar1616 · 2017-12-08T05:31:47+00:00

Try to be the first to speak and greet her in English. She'll be confused, then tell her you have to be honest about something, tell her in Spanish that she looks even more beautiful in person than in her profile. Go from there.

The_Succatron · 2017-12-08T07:38:16+00:00

my spanish is at probably the same level although my speaking is probably a bit less,

do this, my dude:

First greet her in spanish, say something like: "oye!, que onda?", que onda means whats up/hows it going in mexico, it will impress her, then talk a bit, and ask her why she is in US blah blah blah, then ask her if she wants to speak english to practice in a plaful way, or make a joke saying that you are running out of words to say in spanish or something. ahahha laugh laugh, there, you got her in english.

Mexican slang I know: que onda = whats up, muy muy = big deal/fancy/posh (said sarcastically), no mames = means like no fucking wayyy! (similar to que vaiiii! in mainstream spanish).

Also: if she works at a consulate, she has at least some experience in english. Her accent is from mexico so that makes it easier by FAR to understand her if she still speaks spanish, look up some mexican slang, just to make you feel less robotic. How is your actual small talk vocab? do you know words for like; "whatever", "something like that", "seriously?", and "for real?", etc. if not I can help you.

Try to keep the conversation in one language, and changing over maybe once is best. There is a funny thing where if you both speak in your native languages, you will both understand eachother better than if you speak in just one. People can understand a language better than speaking it. Just a thought althouhg I dont recommend on a first date.

itinerant_monkey · 2017-12-08T07:42:46+00:00

If she opened you in Spanish and that's how you've been communicating and you're confident in your ability then don't switch to English. Especially if she's mexicana. Assuming you can keep up she'll be much more comfortable. Mexican Americans are usually more of a toss-up. I similarly learned while living abroad and love flirting with women as a method of maintaining fluency.

Edit: I see now you mentioned feeling more confident about expressing yourself in English. Start in Spanish, be fun, get some practice, and then make a judgment call. If it's not working for you a simple "y que tal tu inglés?" can transition to switching to English without it seeming like you're retreating

smokesomeweed420 · 2017-12-08T14:55:01+00:00

I'd recommend speaking Spanish. Up to you really, but for me when I'm speaking in my non-native language, I'm improving that language, and having more fun.

Good luck

pua_help · 2017-12-08T18:02:11+00:00

Thanks for the replies all. I think I'm gonna go with the consensus (and my gut feeling) and go with Spanish. After all, I got into game in the first place to challenge myself and grow as a person (and hopefully get laid in the process lol). Absolute worst case, we switch to English if I'm fucking up too badly.

DirkDieGurke · 2017-12-08T19:27:33+00:00

Very likely she's more comfortable with Spanish. Source: chinga tu madre

Title	What language to speak on upcoming date?
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Date	December 8, 2017 5:11 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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