I'm getting pretty serious about this whole seduction business now. Actually trying at every opportunity I get. The following are a mini FRs of 3 girls I approached in one night. I went to a bar with a friend who was linking up with a bunch of other people. I didn't know these other people.
FR I: This girl was my favorite. If we were to use the whole HB rating, I'd give her HB9 definitely. I see her sitting at the table, surrounded by people but not in a conversation with any one of them. She just had her arms up on the table and had this really sexy distant look, very modelesque. I approach her and say
"Hello, did you got to school with all these other guys?"
She perks up, as if she was excited that finally someone is talking to her. She simply smiles and replies
"no, I'm just visiting here!"
I reply with:
"cool, I'm puanerrd"
This part is something new, that I haven't really dealt with so I'm curious to know what you experienced sedditors would have done: Another guy swooped in immediately as I approach her and says "this is babe and she's dating dude over there". I couldn't help but feel awkward as fuck and thinking back, she dropped her head and eyes down and clearly was a little off-put as well to. I reply with,
"phew! I guess I can call you babe instead of dude's girlfriend, that'd be a mouthful otherwise"
She giggled and we continue our conversation and the guy that came in to either protect her, or warn me (both likely) leaves. I know her boyfriend was there, but I thought whatever, fuck it, and applied seduction anyways. eye contact statements, not suggestions for conversation I did keep touch out of it, she was across the table and while I was trying to charm her, I wasn't going to be a douche bag and blatantly be all over her while her boyfriend was there. Or should I have....? FR III will make me seem like a hypocrite anyways haha. She tried to guess that I was a model (she's a photographer) and told me I looked nice. She may have been just being playful and nice, but whatever huge ego booster!
Anyways. I want to ask you guys if I acted appropriately here in response to that boyfriend bomb. I was kinda operating under the assumption that I might get a new friend out of this who would link me up with her hot friends.
FR II HB 8. I was told prior that this girl is on the prowl. The guy who told me also happens to be the same guy from FR I that "introduced" me to babe while also pointing out she has a boyfriend. I almost feel that I was a little shaken up by that knowledge, almost as if there was more pressure to succeed now. She comes to the table and sits right beside me. I say "hello again" (she was the first one along with some other guy to say hello to me as I approached the table with my friend). "babe 2 was it?** she says yes "you were....?" (I have a pretty unique name, so I can't blame her for forgetting) "I'm puanerrd" and we both shook hands. I held her hand for a while, without shaking, just holding it there, and keeping eye contact. THIS WORKED REALLY WELL I saw it from a video someone linked to me in the comments of my last FR. Since I was holding her hand, she had her eyes locked on mine as well. I gave her a small smile and immediately said "You are a teacher aren't you"
and she said "yeah...actually I'm in teacher's college, how did you know?"
and I said
"I didn't know, that was a total guess, your style kinda struck me as one of a teacher"
we proceeded to talk about working with kids, as I have done that in the past to. But as we get in the conversation, her friend (guy) comes up and says everyone is going for a smoke. She raises a finger against him and tells him one sec and peaces immediately. Here's where I believe I first fucked up, listen close gentlemen
I hesitated. She basically shooed him away, and looked back at me to continue the convo, but I just looked at her as if expecting her to leave. She then asks me to come out for a smoke to. I said sure, but she was just with group of friends and I wasn't really able to talk to her. Had I just kept the conversation going without skipping a beat, it would have worked out better. So I guess in the future, I should really disregard outside influence unless it'll help me. I couldn't start up a conversation with her at all the rest of the night. I was weak. But hey, major thing I got out of this is that milking a hand shake really works.
FR III Another girl with a boyfriend. But the boyfriend was absent for almost the entire night hanging out with her boys by the bar. This girl was sitting in a booth bench right beside my bar stool, so her legs were pretty much against mine. I used this opportunity to be able to touch her thigh/knees. I did the milking handshake, albeit not nearly as long as with Babe 2. We spoke about genetics, then somehow got in to sex. When talking about sex, she was hanging on to every word I noticed (I have a bit of sexual psychology knowledge, and literally everyone loves hearing about that stuff). A couple of playful bantering with playful punches. She started doing the same to me actually. We went back to someone's house and smoked a joint together to. Alas, boyfriend started hovering closer to her since she saw me gaming her. Learned a lot though. Applied kino, continued to improve my conversation skill, eye contact worked. I'm getting more comfortable with approaches. Next thing to work on is the escalation and close.
Edit: A couple of formatting changes. new to reddit. I'll get it eventually, bear with me ladies and gents.
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