5/4/19 Saturday

I don’t know what the hell happened with this day in the afternoon. I was a little hungover. I got a haircut only to find out I’ve been parting it the wrong way for at least a decade.

Went to a sports bar in Uptown Charlotte. It was about 9 o’clock. There were a few hot girls in groups. Any group tips? Especially if there are some guys in the group? I didn’t drink. I find my initiative is better when I don’t drink. Which I have known for years. I stopped at another bar closer to home. Played darts. There was one attractive girl (about 30) alone at the bar. Tattoos, kind of punk, which I like. I eventually went over and sat next to her. Asked her if she was waiting on friends (lame). She wasn’t. She was a regular at that place and knew a few people by default. We talked for a while. She didn’t seem like she wanted to make conversation at first, but she started to warm up. We talked about my haircut, she was a stylist and agreed I was parting my hair the wrong way. She said she had just got out of a long relationship and didn’t want to date anyone. I should have said “Who said anything about dating?” We talked for about 30 minutes. She showed me some pics on her phone. Including some of her kid. Ruh-roh. Anyhow, she was alternatively engaging and distant. I had no idea where any of this was going, and I was still kind of tired from the night before so I said my goodbyes.

Could I have pulled? Ha! What could I have done differently?