So, I'll start where it's not obvious. I work two jobs and at my second, there is a cute girl that works the front desk (think receptionist). She's very cute and has to talk to everyone, but she was giving me the eyes and smiles so I took it past the professional boundary. We're talking, it's going well, she's laughing, talks about herself, I proceed to build rapport for about 15 minutes (all the while getting her in trouble from her boss but she couldn't stop, another big IOI). After reading Seddit, I picked up lots of IOIs from her: constant smiling, laughing, her trying to keep the conversation going, blushing, but two I want to point out specifically: she gave me a nickname and as she was walking out, she dropped some comment including the phrase "you should get to know me better", which she said with some coyness. Gentlemen, if you hear this phrase, you should know what to do. So, we arrive at another day in the office, she starts of by speaking to every dude in the building. I instantly recognize this as her trying to get my attention, so I oblige her (as I predicted, as soon as I go up and start talking to her, she stops calling out other names). She instantly says she almost added me on facebook, blah blah blah I agree and amplifiy, but say "skip the bullshit, just put your number in my phone". This shows confidence, and it wasn't risky seeing as the level of IOIs she'd given and her saying she almost added me. The last thing she said after we'd talked about meeting up for drinks was "when I go out I'm a shit-show, so be ready" with the sexiest, I want to bang your face off look. This was on Thursday. We texted briefly, mostly just to establish contact, but haven't texted since Friday. There is a concert coming up this Friday, I'm thinking just play it cool and flirty at work, make intentions clear, and then close at the concert? What does Seddit think thus far? As always, please feel free to provide corrections, points and analysis.
EDIT: Okay, so second job is a bad term, more specifically, she is an employee at a business where I go to and get paid to do a service in but don't work at. I'm there like 5 hours a week and she only sees me maybe 2 hours out of that tops. So yeah. I'm not office wrecking here.
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